My dear Sis, thank you for such words! You filled my heart with warmth now and make me smile;) I try to be the Mother you've described. Don't know whether I am successful or not. Maybe later when my son will be grown up, we will see it;) Sometimes I do something, and then I see I was wrong, I had to behave differently, but....we all are people, we all can make mistakes. There are NO ideal parents. But they are parents who are trying to be close to it. Looking at ourselves from the other side helps much. The main is not to forget to do it as often as possible;)