I was disappointed at how some persons are irresponsible in their minds when I saw some comments under this post somewhere.
Comments like:
Dark times, what a pity, some women are like that, your friend is a secrete hater. Seriously, are we to say his friend was wrong? Without being told you don't know it is only proper to get a space of your own as an adult, And how would you ever had thought he was comfortable having you in his space all the time? If he needed a roomie he wouldn't have left his father's house. He wanted a space of his own and you come in all day to defeat that purpose. Not that you were just passing the night for a purpose or you came visiting. Are you trying to tell us with this pity comment of yours to fault your friend and his girlfriend or what?
Bro you weren't supposed to be there in the first place. Unfortunately, we all know how there are a lot of people out there like this. People who deliberately overuse the privilege of friendship. They borrow money from a friend, and they do not see the need to pay because their friend is supposed to understand. They patronize friends and would not pay completely. After all na my friend. What are friends for?
Like they would trample on your patience and conscience just because y'all are friends and when you explode they carry the news about how you abused them. when dealing with fellow humans regardless of whether you are friends or not. Keep over-familiarity at bay. Know when people need their space. Know when people are not comfortable with a play or gesture. Of course, certain privileges should accompany friendship, however, you should use your initiative to know what's due and what's not.
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I think the trouble here also is it’s a bit of the friends fault for not asking if things are okay. If someone is sleeping at your place more than once you should ask them what’s up. I’ve never slept at my friends house but if I did I know he would’ve asked me if everything was cool or if I needed help.
This is true also, and often times people tends to put responsibility on people especially when it involves friendship. Sometimes it is very hard to ask just so you don't make them feal bad....