There’s certainly a lot to be said about making our own choices in a lot of ways. We just have to weigh the options for now and the future. For example not getting married at 18 is likely an ok decision but don’t wait until you’re 35 to get married because you are a vastly different person and you likely will have troubles finding the right person and having children.

We should balance our situation now with what we may want in the future. A lot of women have made the wrong choices for their early years and deeply regret it when they get older and men reject them.