I think the core point you may be missing is the underlying issue here is competition. When we have no competition then we don’t have motivation to improve. If life were easy then we wouldn’t grow and we would fail quite honestly. Life is about challenges, learning and overcoming problems and obstacles.
The competition comes in many forms but importantly when there is no competition then we don’t work as hard. For example governments in many places around the world reduce or eliminate competition and this hurts people, markets and economies. If we have no competition then we won’t improve services.
As well men and women are entirely different physically and psychologically. I think equality among men and women is absolutely not what we should be striving for. There are things that women do that men could nor should ever do and there are things that could be said the same about women with men’s things. We need to learn to understand and appreciate these differences. This equality notion is a way to destroy families and societies, if neither parent is raising the children because both are focused so much on work then children suffer. I am not saying that women shouldn’t work but we need to understand that equality is damaging to humanity. Humans for tens of thousands of years were successful because of this separation of duties. We can continue to be successful if we stop trying to all do the same things.