The crisis hour of adulting : The panic years


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The panic years, these are what the mid twenties are anyway, these years for every adult are those point which career and ambition, financial and monetary issues, social behavior, alongside strength and weaknesses are predetermined.
For a guy it's a point of pressure of having a stable source, a home and financial stability and as for the ladies the pressure of having a partner and building a home, in some cases a stable source, all of this for both genders are the general age of 25 and the max of 30 which I put together as the panic years.
The panic to have everything figured out before 30.
The panic to stay ahead of living cost and expenses.
The panic of thoughts like would I buy a house and a car.
The panic where people's success on social media makes your stomach rumble and drop.
The panic to constantly self improve, to do more task and read more books to divert your fears and thoughts until it becomes a habit .
The panic to make people proud.
The panic to stay relevant and keep plans with friends .
To be very honest everyone keeps struggling from thinking about the panic years but it all still going to continue anyways,
But in reality,Everyone has a chapter they don't read out loud, nobody really started it alone like they made us believe, there are always someone either as a role of a financial freedom,a mentor and a family figure.
Everyone will get to their goals at their designated time and there isn't a time frame for success.
We will succeed in everything we choose to do and light will shine on the road ahead of us.
Happy Thursday
Thank you for reading

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Panic Years 😆😆😆

Although you made me more than giggle when reading all the panic feelings we may have, some of them resonate with me. Not that I think I ever was in panic mode, but for some reasons certain aspects not addressed in life, felt like a pressure from society. Simply by all sorts of people constantly asking about this topic. Not sure if it is about age entirely, but most of such questions aren't asked anymore by peeps in my family and inner circles, even by peeps in somewhat more outer circles, now I am older. Well, perhaps my inner and outer circle peeps are also older and wiser, excepting the situations, or perhaps not that much interested anymore, orrrrr they simply know me better than when I was younger.

My philosophy in life is. Take it as it presents itself. Be open to opportunities, the adventure. But also, pass on them whenever we feel like, or our logical side says so. But not always. More like, a bit of this and a bit of that. In addition, accept whatever we decide, always. Learn from those decisions, but never feel guilty about decisions made. I believe this is the only way to reach happiness levels. When this is without filling in all the panic topics, or some of them, then it is what it is.

NJOY today... as well as NJOY tomorrow, and accept today 🙃

Exactly... There isn't any actual manual to life

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