Hmm that's an interesting question.. I would like to think that I am more suited to be a follower/someone working behind the scenes, so having someone who is a good leader is something that I would respond favourably to. I find that it's rare to find good leaders these days.
I like the fact you know that about yourself, and yes, good leaders are thin on the ground and that situation will only get worse from here.
But...we are all leaders in some way, even from behind the scenes as you say. Setting a good example, being structured, efficient, personable, mannered, courteous and so on...these things are being a good leader as they are noticed and most often emulated and respected. Just saying...a leader doesn't always need to be a designated person with a title, greater income, stripes on the shoulder...we are all leaders in some fashion.
Yup I get where you are coming from. :)