The trick is to manage to laugh when it actually happens and not another day

Oh I've learnt that trick - I ALWAYS laugh in those situations. I really believe that it's part of a cosmic joke, and if you're not laughing about it, you're spending too much time taking shit seriously. However, my husband just gets stressed and grumpy and CANNOT see the funny side until later. I always know that 'one day we'll remember all that and laugh.' in the heat of a bad situation, and figure I may as well cut straight to humour, but thata doesn't go down well with the man being all so serious about it, ahaha!!!

As long as you guys are working on it, that's the main thing.