Kiss 127: Letting Go What I Love ❤️.

in The MINIMALIST3 days ago (edited)

Hello family ❤️!

It has really been awhile guys but always have you all in mind. Sometimes managing family is not really easy but that is the biggest part of gift 💝 of life.

Living a minimalist life can be quite challenging in some areas that we might not have control on maybe due to emotional attachment or love ❤️ for the things we have acquired over time through budgeting.

As a girl child who love fashion while growing up, I was always asking things from my senior sisters then, especially things I see them use that I love. But you know it will never be easy for them to give them straight out to you then because its still part of their wardrobes. So I will get to wait and be watching until they decide its time to let go which can take like months or even a year.

Do I really have a choice then? No because I was still a student who has to depend on my parents and siblings through budgeting because this is what minimalism is all about for those living it.I was also promising myself that once I finish school and start earning I will be able to buy things for myself but right now, I will manage what ever I get from my sisters because they look so attractive to me especially the flowery dresses 👗 I love so much when I see them dressed up. Looking elegance.

Quality Maintenance:

And as I finished school and started earning I was able to buy the things I like making sure they are fashionable and has quality to last me a longer time as a minimalist that I have learnt from my mother and sisters who will makes sure not to waste things or throw money around.

My goal then became to always invest in things I know will have second hand value which was why I was able to use most well enough before giving them out, still good looking since they are of quality.

My Biggest Challenge:

And as time went by and I became a mother with family. Lots of expenses began to surface from here and there, and responsibilities keep increasing even though the man of the house has lots to handle. But because the era is changing, and change became constant, affecting the economy in one way or the other. Then I became very cautious of the things I want to let go off my wardrobe. I became very attentive to choosing out things that I know I love ❤️ that I must not let go as a minimalist because of how they still retain quality and newness.

This was my biggest problem and challenges. So when am giving out things or donating things I will take time to check them properly, knowing what I can still manage with among them before letting go.

Decluttering is very important to us as minimalist and our lifestyle is depended on living simple but sometimes its very difficult to let somethings go away from you especially if they are still things that will serve you more because of quality or because you need them to still push life ahead due to how change has made things to be, hence we need to manage what we have to be able to save to take up other responsibilities we need to solve.

However, despite having and wanting to keep the things I like and cherished so much, I make sure to have less as I constantly give out the ones I feel has to go as to create space in my wardrobe to avoid piling things up and creating clutter, a big trouble for someone when choosing outfits. I don’t mind having few from the things I like that can still serve me generally.

This is my response to #Kiss 127:

Thanks for reading friends ❤️❤️

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Thank you for the support @ladiesofhive . Lots of Love ❤️.

I can relate to how giving out can be challenging even though I wasn't the type who always had too much for himself. It is relatable because we all have something we struggled to let go.

Mine were friends but I ended up having a strong reason to let them go.

Truly sone times a struggle we have to face because even though we live simple, we must encounter challenges as humans.

Thanks for stopping by dear George.
Happy weekend.

 3 days ago  

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I understand why people buy expensive clothes to get quality and last longer, fashion is always changing, but basically everything is the same.I even like to spend my money to look for second branded items and then I sell them again if I don't use them. 😍

Good idea friend. Buying things that has quality even if there second hand helps us a lot. We can sell or give them out still retaining its quality.

Thanks for you kind words. Enjoy your weekend ❤️