Funny confession - I often chuck things or take them to the oppie and I have to hide it from Jamie (and previously my son). I'd have to deal with the questions: 'why are you getting rid of that?' etc. But if I do it secretly, they don't know and don't even miss it! And if they say 'what happened to that 'thing'', I can shrug and say 'Oh, I took it to the oppie years aggo, didnt' you notice' or 'don't know, it's around somewhere' and they don't think about it again ever. #secretminimalist