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RE: Work Smarter, Not Harder!

in The MINIMALIST25 days ago

Do you feel that traveling and battling overthinking have gone hand-in-hand for you as well?

Hmm, maybe! I think it's just self-growth and experience... and as they say, only a fool hurts himself twice!

I think I put things into perspective and remind myself that I cannot read other's minds, and also, I ask myself the question, "What's the worst that could happen?" ... and just break things down and channel my energy differently.

It took me time to get there though:)))

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 25 days ago  

as they say, only a fool hurts himself twice!

It's funny you say that, I was considering putting the quote about how worrying is just suffering twice in this post ahahaha

Speaking of cool quotes, I also like "What other people think of me is none of my business"... None of us are mind readers, and maybe trying to be is like mental self flagellation. Our ideas about what others might think seem to often hurt more than the reality of things!

I love what you said here, and that you've reached that point through personal growth 💗

 25 days ago  

Our ideas about what others might think seem to often hurt more than the reality of things!

That's exactly the point.
So it's better to work on ourselves, have virtues that we live by, and then understand more about ourselves to know what we're about. That way, it doesn't matter what others think... and living by your virtues you can only trust that others will see you the way you are, and not by how they see themselves.

Always remember, we think what we are... or we see the world how we see ourselves.