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RE: Values That Shape Minimal Living

in The MINIMALIST2 years ago

Hey there!

Your post made me teary-eyed. I wasn't sure what I would get when I put a topic out about values, but this post is so valuable to me. I wish I was inside your mind. You see the world in such a beautiful way.

This point in particular:

Thoughts Become Things.

It took me a long time to acknowledge that.

When I first started dating my now husband, I remember going on a date in my favourite dress. I was at rock bottom in my life, and he hated seeing me that way. When I started feeling better, he said to me.
"You look beautiful in that dress, and I know it's your favourite and I like it too. But how about getting rid of that dress."

He explained to me that every time I see the dress it will take me back to a bad place. He was right. I got rid of that dress, and have used that principle since.

You are so wise 🤗🙌

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I enjoyed it 😉 Thanks for your #KISS


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Your husband is definitely intuitive and SMART. I actually burned all the photos from my second unhappy marriage. And kept ONE nice image of my then husband, from before we were married, the way I CHOOSE to remember him.

It's true that the memory ties of things - even our so-called favourites - are often unconscious... and that letting anything ambivalent go is a game changer.

Appreciating the good vibes - the fan clan application office is to yor right, down the hall, third door on the left. 😆

Thanks for creating some really thought provoking questions in this community. I'm trying to get back to my daily posting regime and intending to be more regular here. xxx

 2 years ago  

It's my pleasure, and I'm always impressed by the different views and words of wisdom shared. I do hope that you'll get back to regular blogging:)))