Damn phone. I keep opening replies/posts, then I think "oh this is too long for the phone, I'll check it out on the laptop later", and completely forget about it xD you'd think I'd learn to stop opening them. so sorry about the late reply.
And we are "bound" to act in "truth" to stay on the right path if you will.
I really like that.
It's that knowing what is "right action" isn't really as simple as you'd think!
Yeah, I keep encountering that. Every day, I'm learning more, as you said, and trying to find the limit between good intentions and my own codependence/need for confirmation/coping whatever, when giving advice ;)
I saw this thing online, how maybe people telling you their story are only looking for your vibe, not your lecture sometimes. It resonated. I'm still working on integrating that, though.
(even psychiatrists and psychologists are supposed to be in therapy to keep them in check professionally but few bother!)
I just finished a book that said that xD And that you should ask potential therapists about that. It was funny, cause I'd reached out to someone the night before, and I was like "you kidding? I could barely work up the courage for a hello". But you know, baby steps.
Because when we take action there are consequences and these lead us into new understanding of things. It can't not.
See, I wanna think that, but I see so many obtuse people, wilfully making the same mistake over and again, and seemingly stuck in their current lives. When are they learning the consequences? Not my business, I know. Right now, I'm talking a lot about other people to mask the inner process, but on the inside, I'm very me-focused atm.
:)
Eh... you're not obtuse or unconscious. I wouldn't worry about that too much.
Hell yeah check that your therapist is working their own process and accountable before you let them into your brain!
p.s. you're awesome in case someone didn't tell you that today.