I don't deny it, and my wife knows it, before I got married I had many dates, some good and some not so good, in those dates I managed to get very far, you can say that at least I got as far as the date had to go.
Then my next dates have been with my wife, in fact the first date I had with her was in the library of the university, after we got married we always had dates as spouses, I surprised her many times quoting her somewhere and then take her to dinner, then the girls came into our lives, there was a pause, but now they can stay alone and there my wife and I take advantage to have short dates, but giving life to that we have always had my wife and me.
Two weeks ago I took her to see a sunset by ourselves, without the girls, it is good to surprise her from time to time, it makes me feel very good.
I think, if the two people are compatible, even what may be considered a bad date is actually good. Compatibility and connection is about give and take, understanding and forgiveness...so a bad date could be seen as a funny, enjoyable and memorable experience if viewed through the those lenses.
I had a few dates in a library...they went well, and that library will never be the same again! 😁
Yep, we are alike in this...a date with the girl and nature always has value.
Thanks for responding.
I understand what you are saying, and I think I can also say the same, libraries, and their study cubicles, you have a lot of stories to write. 😁😁
It's good to always renew, especially when you love, and being in nature and talking and enjoying some time alone, makes us feel closer.
I thought you might catch my drift with that comment. 😇