The concept of hell is very earthly, very human one might say.

This can't be said to be entirely false coupled with the ideal examples you gave, maybe it's a living hell though because those things comes by to all humans once in a while.

Getting to be like water, I say will be the highest attainment any human might get to
Water is formless yet never flows backwards.. it's always forward ever.

Thanks for those musics accompanying your write up, I loved beautiful boy by John Lennon the most