Sometimes actually, I have really come to discover that life at times can offer to us what we actually did not want and that is what affects it at times. In fact it can really affect a whole lot of things at times. But well life is not really design to make it easy for us but to actually make us to even thrive no matter what
It's tough but with toughness comes character building. It's not always easy to be honest but we have to keep pushing because therein lies our success story eventually.
You are quite right. In fact I have come to discover that those toughness actually made us to become quite much more better and well equipped for the future much more than we can ever imagine of. We need to stay tough