Motherhood

in BDCommunity3 years ago

About six months after my marriage, I noticed the presence of a baby in my womb.
Many girls face many problems and difficulties after having a baby.
I am no exception.
My life struggle for survival started from the month after conceiving the baby.
I can't eat anything.
Although I forced myself to put something in my mouth, I could not bear the burning sensation of hunger.
Immediately vomiting started in the mouth.
When vomiting starts, I think all the nerves in the abdomen are coming out.
Suffering! Unbearable pain!
One day is equal to one year.
In this way, four or five months go by.
And every day and every moment I keep fidgeting with hunger.
But I can't take any kind of food in my mouth.
All the food smells bad.
I have heard from mothers and aunts that this is often the case with new pregnant mothers.
In family life, only me and my husband.
Due to our husband's job, we have to stay far away from the rest of the family.

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Can you imagine the condition of a person who has not eaten for months?
All that was left of my body were the bones and the skin.
Then when my baby's movements in the abdomen
I could feel, then all the troubles would be removed from my mind immediately.

From conceiving the first child to giving birth, I realized very well that being a mother is not easy
You have to become a mother by disappearing.

Then another war began.
Will the baby be delivered by caesarean section according to the position of the baby in the abdomen or not?
However, in both cases of normal delivery and cesarean delivery, every mother has to fight for her life. But there are many people, this post is for those who think that cesarean delivery is easy.

"According to Wikipedia,
A caesarean section is a surgery where seven layers of tissue are opened and the mother is expected to wake up in six hours. Taking responsibility for another one, not to mention acute uterine contractions, is the product of steam, the olfactory bulb of the mammary gland, the release of oxytocin.

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If you, like me, are a mother by caesarean section, then you are far more powerful than you or the people around you think.
So I or we will be proud of ourselves.
Because at the risk of your own life, you or I have shown the light and air of the world by giving birth to a child.

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I can relate to the giving birth by caesarean method. My aunt gave birth using that method and I know how much pain and struggle she had to tackle to stay strong for herself and the child. Mother's are amazing

That's quite an experience. I have gone through almost the same.
There are ups and downs of motherhood but loving it is the best thing.

Yes sister, you are right. ♥️