The most promising fact of having the family by your side is you WON’T be alone. At the same time, the same family, when the table is turned, will be the spike in your shoes as you CAN’T be alone— a dilemma every family person lives with.

Exactly, I have seen both of them, the first scenario in my case and the second one for someone very close to me. Yeah, often I feel an urge to live alone but never felt the necessity to be away from my family. But many are compelled to be separated due to the SPIKE you mentioned.