Creativity: A Curse or A Benediction?

You will find some people around who are quite creative. New ideas are constantly coming out of their heads. They may write very well, write poems, sing, draw strangely beautiful pictures or do something that makes people think, fascinate. If you mix with these people for a while, you will see that there is a lot of hesitation in them. They are very sensitive about many things. After talking to them for a long time, you will notice that they suddenly become distracted.

Some of them may be very good friends, they are born with the ability to hang out or talk nicely. But how long is that? You will never see a creative person laughing at the same person day after day, hanging out in the same place. Rather, they have a habit of diving after a few days, a tendency to run away from the world and give time to something new. Their feelings of love are very subtle, but they may not last long. They are very sensitive in the relationship but at the same time very indifferent.

Why is that? Probably the biggest reason behind this is art. They spend most of their time behind the artistic work they are involved in. Even in the time of love, a writer notices how his lover smiles, how she becomes arrogant, how she makes eye contact or does her eyes - all the writer always notices all the subtle things.

The tendency to rediscover themselves and their surroundings is always there. As long as you have these people you will feel social, you will feel romantic. Then one day you will notice that they are not in the real world. They create art with these observations. As fascinating as that art may be, it may be as boring as individual people.

That is why no creative person wants to be like his creation. Also, no one should want a creative person to be the same as his work. Those who are introvert and creative at the same time have more problems with them. Whatever you think of their work, in reality they are not like that work.

They will look at people from behind, write about them, create art but they are reluctant to go too close to people and maintain relationships. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person. Because the way you judge a person, creative people can't be judged on that same scale..

Most importantly, if a creative person is truly dedicated to his or her work, you can never be his or her first love. Even if you try a thousand times, his / her first love will always be their art. So before you fall in love with creatives, keep this in mind very much. Don't force personal demands on them because of work place. Because, they will never leave the job but maybe you.