Put me in your shoes 👞…

in BDCommunity4 years ago

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What’s up Hivers

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Put me in your shoes never meant we are going to put our legs into the same shoes and start walking around with it. Didn’t that look insane?! Lol 😂. Maybe so, but you can always try it, it seems to work out and a bit inclined to the topic. What would happen when I get into your shoes? Am I the oversized type? Or just some kind of undersized? Am I the perfect one? Maybe so!

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Many people just take decisions for others at their own will and their comfort zone. Without knowing what others are passing through, at the time we take a look at the outer appearance of some people and use that to judge them. Who knows what they are passing through underneath? Most times people just take a cover look on the outer part trying to put their pain deep inside them.

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One word from you could save lives and also could be a cause of destruction to someone. So I think it better to consider what would be perfect for such a person and that point in time. Toying with emotions and playing with how others feel is always out of bound to most people. The drug you used to cure your malaria fever at once and you feel relieved could be the same drug someone else would use and still put an increase to malaria in addition to typhoid fever too.

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Remember as always one-man food is surely another man's poison. The school subject you love so much and understood the most is surely someone else weakness and would always struggle so hard to under every bit and inch of the subject, but it came way too easy to you. That should be a stand for your abuse or feel more important than they do.

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Rich or poor, whichever position you find yourself never abuse those on the opposite side of you. You never can tell, the shoes they wore today might be on your feet tomorrow. Then you realize how hard it was for them to handle such a position. Nothing comes with ease, being rich is mercy and what many would pray for but at the time when you get to the burden and even loneliness many of them had to encounter in their lives, you would never want to pray to be in such a situation.

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Come to think of being poor, no one would surely pray for that but those that find themselves rich would never realize the pain the poor had to pass through, living their lives filled with dreams and imaginations, having their lives full of hope and wishes, being forced to stay humble and having their hustle at the peak. All the rich might see in them is that they have peace of mind. Meanwhile the poor would see the rich as those who are blessed to live the life of their dreams.

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Many scenarios in life to take an example of; they young would aspire to grow up so quick to attain a certain level of life where they would have to do things on their own, gain freedom, and also be more responsible. They would always have a dream like that looking up to the elderly ones who might have accomplished that in their life to a certain level.
Meanwhile the other way round, the grown-ups are always looking back at their young age wishing they could turn back the hands of time so they could rectify the mistakes they had done before they became grown-ups. But it can never happen again.

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In life, one thing that can make you live so perfectly and enjoy every second of your life is when you put others into consideration. You put them in your shoes to see how they feel, everyone has that pain running through their veins. A little help from you might go a long way in their lives.

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What a wonderful post... reminding us all to have perspective and grace with one another. It's so well written. heheheh I think back to when I first met you and how much you've grown as a writer, expressing his thoughts beautifully!

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