It has been long overdue, so I have to post this last update about my sister's condition before I can post anything else. I promised to reply to all the comments in my previous posts, but I apologize that I won't do that anymore. It's been ages and I felt like I'll just be spamming your notifications with "thank you".
The photo above was taken last Thursday (December 5) during her first follow-up checkup with her pulmonologist. So far, her lungs is already clear. The doctor said that he was monitoring her left lung because it was still hazy during the last X-ray. Since she's already cleared with her pulmonologist, we were instructed to have her flu and pneumonia vaccine maybe on March next year.
She was discharged last November 27 and we stayed at a hotel nearby for three days because we were still preparing her room. I was supposed to have this update sooner, but I was so sleep deprived that I tried to catch some sleep. Even then, because I was in-charge with her medicines, I can't really have a continuous sleep because I have to wake up early to prepare her medicines to be taken after breakfast.
The Hospital Bills
Regarding the hospital bill, her final bill was Php 704,000. That was after the professional fees of her doctors (Php 209,000) were added. We made a total of Php 207,000 in partial payments, mostly due to medicine refunds and laboratory tests and the Php 100,000 hospital deposit for her to be transferred from ICU to a private room. I also paid around Php 115,000 in medicines when her account was closed. In total, I think her hospitalization expenses amounted to Php 1,028,000.
As to how we settled the Php 704,000 before her discharge, it was mostly due to her insurance and her company. As my funds were already depleted from the Php 207,000 partial payments and Php 115,000 medicines, I was actually worried on how to settle her remaining bill. Her insurance was supposed to be maxed out at Php 190,000, but the final amount covered was Php 268,000. Maybe that was after the negotiations done by her company. My mother is her beneficiary so the company negotiated that she would waive my mother's insurance benefit until July 2025 so that the company can give Php 180,000. From the government assistance, we were able to secure Php 155,000. We were left with Php 101,000 to be settled before she can be discharged. We discussed about having a promissory letter to pay the remaining amount within one year, but I hated the idea of having long negotiations because she really wanted to go out of the hospital that day. In the end, I borrowed @itskareninamoi Php 50,000 and she also borrowed from her friends the same amount.
Her friends gifted her an air conditioner for her room, but it was a split type and at 1.5 hp which is not really ideal for a small room. It's intended for the whole house. My mother decided to just get a small window type air conditioner. In the end, we have two air conditioners. We will just sell the split type because we can't use it.
I'm just grateful that she's getting better everyday. Her colors are slowly going back and the symptoms are slowly going away. We are now preparing for her follow-up checkups. We're done with her X-ray last Monday (December 2) and the visit to her pulmonologist last Thursday (December 5). We will have her CBC and all the other bunch of tests for her kidney this Monday (December 9) and a visit to her cardiologist and nephrologist this Tuesday (December 10). We will then visit her rheumatologist on Wednesday (December 11). She'll have her second cyclophosphamide treatment on December 19 and another follow-up visit with her rheumatologist on December 20. She'll also visit her neurologist on December 20. Aside from the flu and pneumonia vaccines, she will also have another MRI in about 3 or 4 months. So that's what we are dealing with in the near term.
Thank You All!
I remember when she was still in ICU that one of the patients there needed to have a minimal surgery to insert an IV line in his neck and they're required to deposit Php 30,000. It took them three days to gather that amount. I thought I am so blessed because I was able to have that the same amount when she needed two bags of blood and during her seizures when her medications amounted to Php 33,000 in just one day. And that's because of you guys! Thank you so much for all the help you extended from donations, upvotes, reblogs, and even personally checking on me. I really appreciate it all!
Thank you for all the support in these posts:
[1] Life Update: My Sister's Still in ICU
[2] Life Update 2: My Sister's Undergoing MRI Scan
[3] Life Update 3: She Started Her Cyclophosphamide Treatment
From those three posts I uploaded, here are the people who sent their HIVE and HBD:
Date | Username | Amount | Currency |
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11/7/24 | @worldmappin | 500 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @biologistbrito | 2 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @oscarps | 10 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @ninaeatshere | 50 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @lizanomadsoul | 17.06 | HBD |
11/9/24 | @bhattg | 21 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @tanzil2024 | 15 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @akumagai | 5 | HBD |
11/9/24 | @tegoshei | 5 | HBD |
11/9/24 | @livinguktaiwan | 100 | HIVE |
11/10/24 | @ifarmgirl | 5 | HBD |
11/10/24 | @hierundjetzt | 1 | HBD |
11/10/24 | @damla | 10 | HBD |
11/10/24 | @wittyzell | 5 | HBD |
11/11/24 | @duvinca | 20 | HIVE |
11/11/24 | @fermionico | 2 | HBD |
11/12/24 | @cthings | 10 | HBD |
11/12/24 | @ivanafreyp | 146.161 | HBD |
11/12/24 | @achimmertens | 30 | HIVE |
11/13/24 | @elevator09 | 5 | HIVE |
11/14/24 | @mariasalve | 50 | HBD |
11/15/24 | @cetb2008 | 1 | HBD |
11/15/24 | @jeannmazing | 1 | HBD |
11/15/24 | @hiveph | 128.995 | HIVE |
11/15/24 | @elevator09 | 5 | HIVE |
11/15/24 | @masterswatch | 10 | HIVE |
11/15/24 | @tatdt | 10 | HBD |
11/15/24 | @sjarvie5 | 20 | HBD |
11/16/24 | @lauramica | 5 | HBD |
11/16/24 | @gamingphoto | 20 | HIVE |
11/16/24 | @trangbaby | 80 | HIVE |
11/16/24 | @doriangel | 2.5 | HIVE |
11/16/24 | @belkyscabrera | 5 | HIVE |
11/17/24 | @saintchristopher | 15 | HIVE |
11/17/24 | @wittywheat | 2 | HBD |
11/17/24 | @hiddenblade | 40 | HBD |
11/17/24 | @tpkidkai | 50 | HIVE |
11/17/24 | @anggreklestari | 25.074 | HIVE |
11/17/24 | @vinzie1 | 2 | HBD |
11/18/24 | @magicalex | 1 | HBD |
11/18/24 | @gabrielatravels | 4 | HIVE |
11/18/24 | @justclickindiva | 5 | HIVE |
11/19/24 | @plantpoweronhive | 50 | HIVE |
11/20/24 | @havandris | 1 | HBD |
11/21/24 | @xsasj | 5 | HBD |
11/22/24 | @diamondinthesky | 3 | HIVE |
11/25/24 | @hiveph | 8.735 | HIVE |
11/25/24 | @hiveph | 2.112 | HBD |
11/25/24 | @lizelle | 20 | HBD |
11/25/24 | @priyanarc | 8 | HIVE |
11/25/24 | @elevator09 | 2 | HIVE |
11/26/24 | @gwyddpel | 3.15 | HBD |
11/26/24 | @jarvie | 5 | HBD |
12/1/24 | @glideglobe | 1.9 | HBD |
12/1/24 | @mituoshizhe | 2 | HBD |
12/6/24 | @elevator09 | 4.16 | HIVE |
Thank you so much @detlev, @lizanomadsoul, @lauramica, @ninaeatshere, @glecerioberto, and the whole @worldmappin team! I just want to put on record that these curators covered for me when I was mostly attending my sister at the ICU. From @worldmappin's post:
[1] Let´s support our beloved team member @ybanezkim26 [Eng][Esp]
Date | Username | Amount | Currency |
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11/8/24 | @viviehardika | 2 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @gabrielatravels | 3 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @stayoutoftherz | 5 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @cajiro | 0.50 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @manclar | 1 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @lauramica | 2 | HBD |
11/8/24 | @enraizar | 20 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @condeas | 100 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @hive-reachout | 10 | HIVE |
11/8/24 | @selflessgem | 15 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @acidyo | 50 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @curamax | 50 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @summertooth | 10 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @x-rain | 15 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @demotry | 45 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @grindle | 2 | HBD |
11/9/24 | @jobeliever | 5 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @friendlymoose | 5 | HBD |
11/9/24 | @diamondinthesky | 2 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @lizelle | 20 | HIVE |
11/9/24 | @soyunasantacruz | 5 | HIVE |
11/10/24 | @elevator09 | 5 | HIVE |
11/10/24 | @bluemoon | 25 | HIVE |
11/10/24 | @ruffatotmeee | 3.608 | HBD |
11/10/24 | @funshee | 5 | HIVE |
11/10/24 | @priyanarc | 4 | HIVE |
11/11/24 | @macchiata | 5 | HIVE |
11/12/24 | @relf87 | 5 | HBD |
11/12/24 | @riverflows | 20 | HIVE |
11/14/24 | @silviared945 | 5 | HBD |
11/14/24 | @jeannmazing | 5 | HIVE |
11/22/24 | @arcange | 50 | HBD |
Hive never failed me in my community outreach programs and charity works. Now, the support is still so massive when the need is personal. I'm just so grateful to be in this space. Take note that I have no interactions to some of these people. I didn't even know that some of these usernames exist. Some might have negative impressions of me or I might have an unfriendly encounter with some due to the nature of my work here as a curator. But when it comes to helping, it's like Hive's nature.
Thank you also to @itskareninamoi (and bf), @glecerioberto, and @thestrollingmind (and bf) for visiting in the hospital. Huge thank you to @indayclara for being there when I couldn't take it anymore. Thank you for letting me sleep at your apartment for more than a week when I couldn't make myself stay at home without crying. Thank you to @lizanomadsoul for constantly checking on me. Thank you to @queenielee for the support and show of solidarity even if you're miles away. Thank you @ivanafreyp for letting me borrow your HBD savings. Thank you @thestrollingmind for letting me borrow so that my sister can be transferred from the ICU and @itskareninamoi so that she can be discharged. Thank you Bev, @queenmother, @ivanafreyp, @itskareninamoi, @glecerioberto, @patsitivity, @queenielee, @indayclara, and @thestrollingmind and bf for the help!
I know I couldn't repay you all (except for those I explicitly borrowed) and I know you extended your help knowing I needed it more even if you probably allocated those money for something else. So, I'll just promise to pay it forward, just like I always do. As for Hive, I'll continue with my work as a curator and will be always be true to that mandate. Thank you all so much!
OMG, I am just so happy to see you two together much calmer and in healthy condition @ybanezkim26. For me, there was no question of doing whatever I could to help you out 😘 - You would have done the same. Thanks for your trust and honesty when telling me about it.
You have my full respect for being so responsible, resistant, and brave over those weeks being there for her and making all those decisions! You can be very proud of yourself and I am sure your sister is as well. It surely brought you all even closer than before ❤️ I am glad we could help you out. - I just love how the community stood all together. For me, in the end, this togetherness is what Hive is all about. 😎🤗
Good, that you took some time for yourself to recover and sleep as well 😊
You have been instrumental to the large amount of donations, Liz! For that, I'll forever be grateful.
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Glad to hear she's doing better. You're doing great with that big responsibility.
Hopefully, day by day, you and your family will be given more ease to go through everything. Especially health.
For you too, stay healthy. :)
Thank you so much for your donations, @anggreklestari! It helped me a lot.
I'm relieved to hear the good news! I wish for your sister's speedy recovery to full health.
The Hive community is amazing for lending a hand during the challenging moments that you have gone through.
Thank you so much for your donations, @curamax! It was really a great help.
You're welcome :)
Hey Kim, it's great to hear the progress your sister has made, and that she is finally home with the family. Don't forget to look after yourself as well. Take care!
Thank you, Pauline! Hopefully the follow check ups will show better results. Thank you for your help! It has made a huge difference especially during the time when she was still in the hospital.
Glad she's better na Kim... Hoping for her full recovery. Kakayanin! hugs
Thank you, Shei! Grabe ang giagian this 2024. Pero laban lang.
Glad to hear that your sister's lungs are clear and she has been discharged from the hospital. Wish and pray for her fast recovery. Take care of her and yoyrself.
Thank you for your donations, @tanzil2024! I was able to meet her medical needs because of all your help.
I am very happy with the good news. I hope your sister can continue his life in good health as soon as possible.
Thank you so much! Hopefully she'll continue to recover.
Glad to read your sister is recovering and getting better. All the best to both of you.
Thank you for your help! It means a lot.
I am glad to hear that she is doing much better now and it is beautiful to see how the hive community has supported you and your sister!
I wish her a speedy recovery :)
And feel totally free to ignore this message! I just wanna send you my support & replying all comments must be draining in such a bad times
Thank you for the support, @xsasj! Her lab results are showing very good signs. Hopefully she'll continue to recover.
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I'm glad to hear your sister is improving and that the medical costs are being taken care of. It's very stressful to deal with concern for one's loved ones and still worry that medical insurance is not going to cover all costs!
I am glad to have contributed in a small way, together we can do so much more <3
Thank you so much for your contributions, @lizelle! You have been sending every update and you have been very generous. Thank you!
I'm so happy to hear that your sister is recovering well, sir @ybanezkim26. Wishing her a speedy recovery and hoping you’re also taking care of yourself. You’ve truly been the best sibling anyone could ask for! <3
Thank you, @jeannmazing! Just doing my best for her.
So good to read an update from all that happened. 😊
I am happy she is recovering well.
Life can be challenging, I so know.
Sending you and your family best wishes and a big !HUG
Thank you so much, @littlebee4! Her latest laboratory results are showing very good signs.
You are so welcome 🤗 That is wonderful to hear.
Biggg !HUG to all.
Good news! That's fantastic, hope she will be totally fine and healthy!!! How nice the community support has been these days, I'm happy to be part of it. My best blessings for all of you!!!🤩💖🙏
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Thank you so much for your support, @duvinca! Hive has been very good to me through these years.
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We are very happy to have you and your sister back on track @ybanezkim26! ❤️
I couldn't ask for a better community to be part of. Thank you!
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I'm really pleased to hear that your sister is recovering and improving.
Thank you for your support, @hierundjetzt! So happy that Hive has been very supportive.
Glad to know na she's better na po, I am wishing her full recovery. Fighting lang 💪❤️❤️🤗
Thank you for your contributions, @ruffatotmeee! I really appreciate it. She's getting better based on the latest lab results.
I am glad to hear your sister is on the mend. May she be in her best health soon.🙏
Thank you so much!
I'm glad your sister is discharged and I pray for her healing. Take good care of her and many blessings to the family. I agree this is the nature of Hive, we can't know everyone, but we are a member of a giant family all over the world.
Thank you for your support, @doriangel!
I am glad that your sister is better now. It would be a merrier Christmas for your family. Happy holidays !BBH
It's already an early Christmas gift for me that she's getting better everyday. Happy holidays to you, too!
I'm so glad to read your sister is recovering and getting better!
Thank you so much for the help, @tatdt! She's getting better based on the lab results.
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Thank you!
What a good update. I am so glad that she is doing better. So nice to see all the support for a fellow Hivean.
Thank you so much, @sjarvie5! I really appreciate your help.
Greetings, how nice that your sister has improved, thank God.
Thank you so much!
I'm glad your sister better than yesterday. I wish she will be fine... You are so cool @ybanezkim26
Thank you, @viviehardika!
It is beautiful to be able to see that your sister has overcome the crisis and that despite the dark outlook she was able to see the light and is now out of danger.
Not being able to sleep and being in charge of another person is very noble, but with love everything is possible.
This post is full of gratitude, I send you a hug. @ybanezkim26
Thank you so much, @soyunasantacruz! Hopefully she'll continue to fully recover.
praying for the fast recovery of your sister :) I'm sure she will be better soon and thanks to those Hiver's who helped for the hospital bills of your sister Hive is really amazing.
Indeed, Hive is amazing. Never failed since.
We are relieved to hear that your sister is feeling better.
We wish her a full recovery.
Blessings to her and to you.
Thank you so much, @fermionico!
Glad to hear that everything's better now! Cheers! :)
Thank you for your help, @relf87!
Wish I had a brother like you. It's heartwarming to see how devoted you are to your family, especially your sister. So happy to hear she is doing well. I hope she has a complete recovery.
Thanks for sharing the update. Take care.
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Wow, this is a lot.
I am glad she is recovering, and I hope it happens quickly.
Thank you for staying mentally strong because this could have broken your mental health.
I wish I had something to give, but I don't; my prayers are with you.
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Glad that your sister is getting better sir @ybanezkim26. Hoping for her fast recovery. Stay healthy and fit😊
You are always welcome at my place! See you soon!
Glad to hear your sister is getting well! Wish you the strength to cope with the remaining difficulties and a speedy return to a happy everyday life.
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When you are a good person, kindness will reward you back more than you expected. I remember during steemit days, I posted about my brother's illness, he is a heart survivor with rare condition, it went on the trending section and had a lot of curations that I received when it came to medication and hospital bills that we need to pay. I feel you, I feel this strength and support. And I'm happy that this community has a heart to spread goodness, understanding, and compassion.
God bless you and your family Kim.
God will completely heal your sister. My prayers for your entire family.