Last Saturday I together with @adamada and @indayclara finally had the chance to do a test recording for our podcasting project.
Our first topic should be talking about onboarding folks to Hive, however as we are new to the set-up we are trying to set the vibe first and try to feel on how we can do things sponteniously. As we always have chat interactions only, voice calls especially recordings are kinda awkard.
Now going to the test topic we had a short discussion unto "Why it is hard to accept compliments to other people." As Claire have shared, this is more on a personal level which involves not loving oneself that much and per Adam, it involves the environment.
I hope you will enjoy the small talk that we did and looking forward for you to listen on the other talks that we will have in the future.
If you have any suggestion on what are the stuff that we can tackle. Feel free to comment your suggestion in the comment side and if you want to guest on the show feel free to comment on this post too!
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This is a very interesting topic. My take on this is that it may be because of the upbringing. Growing up, not all of us are used to receiving compliments like "Uy, you did a great job!" Or "Hey, you look gorgeous today." Most of the time, we just acquired that skill of accepting compliments gracefully as we grew up.
Kaya I make it a point to always remind my daughter that she's doing well when she is, or that she is doing great when she does. Basically just building up her confidence but still keeping her grounded para balance lang sa humility and self confidence.
She used to respond "I know!" when someone tells her she looks cute or beautiful. I know now that she has enough self confidence so we worked on her humility so I taught her that she should acknowledge the compliment by saying "Thank you".
And that she should also practice giving honest compliments as much as she can. My daughter is brutally honest and says what's on her mind. That, we are still working on too. Giving honest feedback but trying not to offend the receiver. But that's for another topic. :)
Great topic @tpkidkai awesome input @adamada and @indayclara
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I know! Char! Hahahah.
Thanks po! 😅
Excited ako sa next topics niyo. May naka line up na ba?
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Thanks ate @romeskie for the insights - starting as a kid can be a great foundation talaga on reciprocating compliments. Kinda struggle nga iyan especially if ever na the child never received one from their parents as we are the main contacts for them. ( Something to note of as raising Dyn-dyn medyo lacking ako sa ganito)
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I too am very uncomfortable with compliments. I just don't know why, maybe I am not just used to it.
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I know for me I feel awkward sometimes when I get a compliment. I know I should just say thank you and be done with it.
It is hard for the majority of us, especially if we are not used to it. Hopefully, everyone will be accustomed to receiving and giving compliments to other people. At times, that is what others need to lighten up their day.
I think giving them is easier than receiving them. At least for me! But I agree that it is all some people might need to brighten their day! Enjoy your day! 😀
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I hope I am not too late to give my opinion. In my case, if people would say hey you look great today, but the compliment doesn't go along with your mood on that day you feel like that is not the compliment that you wanted to hear from them. Sometimes you set up a standard on yourself na I am gonna wear this and that and I want people to say that I look good in a blue dress but instead they will say hey your shoes look good with your outfit.
Also low self-esteem especially with women, sometimes when we had trouble trusting and we had gone through bullying it's hard to believe that the compliment is real or not. 😊
Btw, are you asking for a topic that can be discussed around or about hive or a random topic that everyone can relate to? 😊
You are not no worries, all opinions do matter here 😆
Agree minsan talaga kailangan din maka tyempo sa tamang panahon. Not because the intention is nice it is reciprocated well. ( Something that we men lack most of the times.)
Hive or random topics would do - we are just spamming content here in Hive haha kung ano ang mapag-usapan then we will talk about it. This one's just a hobby podcast, parang catch up session mga ganun since most of us just talk via chat lang good avenue to practice Inglishan habang wala pang tama ng alak haahaha.
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Hahaha that's cool. You might wanna talk about covid or politics. I guess this is pretty interesting. If someone from here na from the medical field can give us insights it will be better also is how can we deal with stress like mental health issues ganun. 😊
Thanks for the suggestion - I'll ask them if this can be added to the list of spam discussion that we will have,.
#medyoadvocate ako ng mental health and psych related stuff. I will include such for sure di ko lang alam kung kailan hahaha !LUV
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Awee thank you so much. I admit I've been dealing with my mental health since the pandemic and I was so open about it and I just figure it out the more open you are the more helpful it is but if you are not then that's a big problem. So I guess it will be interesting.
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This is just a random topic out of nowhere haha hopefully we can manage to make it worthwhile as we are just planning to have it on a shitpost set-up. !PIZZA
Ah! I see. Marami magagandang topic para sa ganitong set-up. Lalu na kung may pa !PIZZA. hahaha.
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