May tanong kami..
We have this new portion where we ask questions and you answer via the comments. It will run over the weekend. Once the weekend is over, we will decide the top 3 best and amazing answers from the comment section and we will let you vote for the best commenter in discord and on chain.
Last Week's Winner
Last week, our winner is @ruffatotmeee! You win 1 HSBI!
It should be in Wallet > Others.
Question Of The Weekend (QOTW)
For this weekend, our question is:
Do you like surprises OR do you want everything planned out?
Gusto mo ba ung sinusurprise ka? Especially on your birthday and special occasions? Or kahit walang okasyon, surprise pa rin?
Or are you the type of person that wants everything to be planned out? Yung tipong kahit yung time alam mo na ang gusto mong gawin?
It would be better if you can also give at least one simple example in your answer, para naman mas maintindihan namin. 🙂
Contest Rules
The rules are pretty simple:
- Answer the question in the comment section. No need to create a post about it.
- There's no minimum word count but more than 1 sentence is greatly appreciated.
- No plagiarism. Syempre!
- Content must be in Filipino and/or English.
- Invite another person to join the contest.
- You don't need to be a Filipino to join this contest. Everybody is welcome to join!
Deadline of this contest is on April 21 EOD PH time.
Chosen commenter will win 1 HSBI!
What are you waiting for? Comment now!
Do I love surprises? My answer is no, perhaps it was because I wasn't used and I don't want to be caught off guard.
In my years living on earth,lol I only experienced someone prepared a surprise for me twice, both during my birthday.
One, I didn't know he planned a celebration. Second, he sent me a gift while he was in TW!
Of course when I appreciate it but di ako sanay 🤣.
I? Nope I don't have that sweetness that the husband even doubt if I am really an ilonnga.
Ayon @wittyzell
How about you? @asiaymalay
@ruffatotmeee
@cindee08
Pinaglihi Tayo SA Sama Ng loob, Kaya wlang sweetness🤪😌
No surprises for mw either, I don't even know what to react if ever I receive such. Am I required to cry? Or should I react like WHOA? Hahahaha so no, mas yan talaga pinoproblema ko ee, anong erereact ko. Mamya mag expect ng iyak yong nang surprise tas ma disappoint sha hahaha.
Ikaw @itravelrox ?
Ayon talaga eh, baka di magustuhan ng nagsurprise Ang reaction
!Pizza
I have no problem with surprises but usually NAGPAPARINIG ako sa mga gusto ko or MINAMANIFEST ko kung ano yong gusto ko tapos boom may magsusurprise na nang plane ticket to Palawan or to Bali, an unplanned trip to Barcelona, a scuba diving trip... hahaha charot. I have lived without expectations since I was a kid but received all these surprises as an adult. Wag nyo ko bigyan nang Louis Vuitton, surprise nyo ko pang travel, ganyan lang ako ka simple. charot! hahaha.
Effective to nung single ako for how many years at nasa mga dating stages pa lang. charot harot! LOL
ano say mo @jane1289?
hahahaha oo ngaaaa. pag ganyan kanino ka ba dapat tumingin? tsaka ang hirap mag smile palagi 😆
ahahaha nu ba yan lhes, asan na yung pagka ilongga mo 😂
Wala nga/! Fake yata 😀
Ohhhh surprise gifts are always welcome for me. Yung party yung d ko talaga peeeeg. Ang awkward kasi tas yung nga ayaw ko ng abala haha
@mariacurls try to share your thoughts about the question.
I am the type of person who wants everything to be planned out. I scheduled things that I should do for a week, and this includes what time I should do the endeavor and on what day. It may be weird if I do things like this, but I have a paranoid personality. I have a heart that beats rapidly when things get out of control, and I have a mind that overthinks when something happens that I didn't expect. Surprises might be a great thing, and I also love them, but I grew up being the type of person who plans surprises. I am like the coordinator of someone's life. May it be birthdays or special occasions for my loved ones, I would plan a surprise for them. That's why I got the habit of planning what I should do for a day, like what time I should take a bath, do laundry, wash my plates, study, and sleep, and even the time I have to travel and go home. I may love planning things, but sometimes I don't plan my day on a rest day or on a day I set aside for myself to be lazy.
What about you, @missbeaute? Do you like surprises or do you want everything planned out?
Before I start, I would like to say thank you for giving me an opportunity to answer the question. I'm looking forward for this blog since the last question I was not given an opportunity to answer. 😁 Well, I'm a planner person, I wanted everything to be planned out. Even birthday's, I always nag my parents what to do during my day. Planning ahead for me minimize the disappointment that will happen in the future. Since, when you plan things, the disappointments you will encounter is part of it, and you will be able to overcome those problems cause from the beginning you have been expecting those things. Thank you. @hiveph
What about you ma'am @diamondinthesky ?
Sayang yung last time pero okay lang, buti nakasali ka na this time 😅
Oo nga. Nagcomment pa nga ako because I was too excited to express my feelings and only to find out that the blog was all about voting the best comment. 🤣🤣 That's why, when I saw this blog, I really read carefully what it is all about so that I will not feel disappointed. One of the reason why I love planning, less disappointments, less pain. 😁 @wittyzell
HAHAHA nagamit pa as example 😂
Hahaha, focus po ako sa blog na ito. 😁😁 Thank you for engaging me here sa blog. @wittyzell
Gusto ko yung surprises kasi mas natural yung emotion na nararamdaman doon kasi kapag hindi, parang ang boring para sakin. Tsaka di nashoshow yung totoong emotion doon ng mga tao sa paligid mo or dimo mashoshow yung real emotion mo kapag may plano kasi what if ayaw mo or niya pala yung plans? May mga bagay na gusto ka or gusto niya ang ending di kayo tugma at umuoo nalang.
Tsaka kapag plinaplano kasi, uso yung nadedelay or hindi din naman natutuloy/nagagawa. Parang nagplano lang pero drawing lang naman pala. Naranasan ko na kasi yan ng ilang beses eh kapag nagsabi ng plans or nagplaplano kami ang ending, di naman natutuloy nakakadisappoint lang. 😮💨
I really like surprises. I don't know but there's something, a feeling that's so hard to explain if someone surprises you. When that happened, I will always cherished that moment as it will keep on flashing back on my mind. On the other hand, What I hate about planning out is that most of the time it will not gonna happened especially about travels or going out with friends. There is something also with planning out. But still I prefer surprises.
Have about you @maryjolly?
I always like to plan but surprises here and there aren't bad. It's even more special if someone who doesn't plan everything out will surprise me, or vice versa. Even when I plan, go with the flow pa rin. Uncertainties are also planned out so keri lang kahit di masunod ung plano talaga. Who knows, baka may mas magandang mangyari when you just let time take its course.
How about you @appleeatingapple @itz.inno @katey-cate @lhes?
so mag plan na ba kani ng surprise pag uwi mo? 😆
ngayon ko lang to napansin ah HAHAHA
wag na! HAHAHAA abala pa
Why do I want to not to thank @wittyzell for mentioning me here? haha. Joke lang.
Anyways, I am the type of person who wants to have everything planned and often gets frustrated when things don't go the way I planned it.
So yes, I want it all planned but I love giving surprises too and I want everything perfectly planned.
I don't exactly know how I feel about being surprised because I'm quite traumatised with how things turned out before. I don't want to be surprised but I love to give happy surprises to others.
And I, thank you.😊
I am not much into surprises but don’t mind being surprised, but also only to an extent. Big surprises in public are a no for me as I don’t like being in the center of attention. And also it might cause unintended inconvenience to other people! I prefer something intimate with people that I am close with.
If it’s the other way around, I like to give out little surprises slightly planned in advance. Example, something I practiced since college is, I give out chocolates(I can only afford flat tops or curly tops that time) to people I know, even those I am not close with. And it comes with a small mean poems as a joke like “roses are red violets are blue, everytime I flush the toilet I remember you” 😆 But I haven’t done that in a long time now though lol
Also when I send birthday presents to friends now, I do plan it a bit just in case they’re not home. I give them a heads up that something will be delivered to them but I won’t tell them what it is. So yeahhhh yun lungs 😆
kayo @ohlnwwlknat @itz.inno?
Same! I wanted something intimate and not subject into public keneme 😁
baka ma bash pa toy pag maka abala ng iba grabe pa nmn ang cancel culture ngayong panahon 😆
ay wow nmn sa pa poem.
as for me, i would rather have a simple plan or layout din but go with the flow lang sa minute details. i'm not into extra planning. i don't necessarily love or hate surprises. but, ayaw ko ng surprises na nakakadisturb or affect other people negatively. let's keep the surprise contained kumbaga. (i guess it is what we call "growing up")
yeah I think we just realized that all those attention from a lot people, especially from those we don’t even know, is not worth it. Or baka titas and titos na talaga tayo 😆🥲
kahiya naman din kasi baka meiwaku na tayo sa iba hahaha (ang hirap mag translate)
ay ano po yung meiwaku? lols
Thank youuuuuu7 ✨✨🤩
To be honest, I really like to plan things out properly 🤓. It lessen the possibilities of things going worng. But given the different kind joy in surprises, e shene be nemen eke pere tumanggi... wag lang yung surprise na may tutuk na patalim sa tagiliran mo sabay "akin na lahat ng pera mo".
Kuya @demotry, palapag nang mga thoughts mo. char hahaha
surprises are fine, ang ayoko lng is pag may plan sila to go ahead without my input and they have the gall to blame me when I can't commit fully or commit at all.
It should be agreed upon by the parties involve.
kaya nga walang issue kung bigla kang aalis magisa, compared to biglang aalis as a group.
Huyyyy true Po, I have experienced that before. Like, why are you blaming me for not coming if I didn't even agreed to come in the first place. 💁🏼
dbaaaa~ 😆
nakakaloka po mindset nila🙉
Usually, I like to plan things out because I'm really an overthinker. I tend to plan things often because I want to be ready for anything I'll do, but most of the time, no matter how hard I try to follow my plans, I really end up messing them up, and that mostly leads to disappointments. I usually get agitated when my plans don't work. That's why, for me, it's better not to plan everything that I'll do. It's much more enjoyable if I experience being surprised because, for me, it's more memorable. I'm not saying that planned celebrations aren't enjoyable, but I think I'll appreciate that experience more if it happens unexpectedly. I'm really a sentimental person, and mostly the experiences that I vividly remember are the times I was surprised. I really felt important during those moments, and yeah, those surprise moments really live rent-free in my memories ｡• ᵕ •｡.