Every human being on earth has what pleases them and what you will do to them that they won't like in other words displease them normater how tolerant they are.
Yes we have the gift of long suffering but to some extent people don't tolerate rubbish because they know what they want and what they don't.
So it is to God almighty there are things that pleases God the most and the things are no other things we don't know about but things we are fully aware of, we won't say we don't know because it's no longer a new thing what God wants from us, it includes holiness and righteousness, serving him with all your heart, this are what pleases God the most.
When we live holy, our lives will please