I thought a lot to participate in the Tribe's BiWeekly Question that this question is very deep and not easy to shorten but I tried to choose the most important lesson for me and I tried to explain it to you in a different way to deliver my message clearly...
Group A:
Think a little and then try to answer these questions without using Google :
- What are the names of the five richest people in 2018?
- What are the names of Miss World for the years 2018/2017/2016?
- What are the names of Nobel prize winners in 2018/17/16?
- What are the names of the Winners of the Academy Awards in 2018/17/2016?
You can't answer ... Are they very difficult questions? Yes, dear, I know that very well, and that's normal.
Don't worry you are not stupid you are a very normal person because most people can not answer and do not remember those names although they are names for very famous and very rich people ... But everyone forgets their names quickly and their names disappear from our memory quickly ...
We're going to re-experiment, but with different questions.
Group B:
- What are the names of the persons who helped you through your suffering and grief?
- What are the names of the persons who made you think you were a special person?
- What are the names of five persons you like to spend your time with?
Questions are easier ... Is that right? Yes, my friend. I realize this well because persons who mean something in our life we will not forget them quickly, and we will keep their names like tattoos in our memory, although no one describes them as the best in the world, ... they didn't win the awards ... they are not the richest people in the world but for us, they are the best and the most wonderful are part of our life or in other words, they are stars in our own world ...
One of the most important lessons I have learned in my life is that I cannot win a Nobel Prize or an Oscar and
I cannot become the richest man in the world...
But I can be in the group B,
I can be one of the people who helped someone in his hard days or by a beautiful word I can make someone feel special and I can make those around me happy to spend their time with me I can be a beautiful memory of someone somewhere in this world .....
I learned this during my suffering with my sick son, I was putting some posts here to express my suffering, and some were commenting or voting on my posts ... those comments or upvotes did not change anything of my real-life but inside me, did change a lot of things ... their words gave me a big strength to continue for keeping my dream alive to make my son walk again...
today I still remember everyone who commented or voted and I can not forget them no matter how long I live. In my own world, they are the best stars and celebrities and rich people ..
Summary: If you can do anything for someone who is broken or needs help, don't hesitate. Because anythings be important to him...
If you can't be in group A, you can be in group B.
