Abundance.Tribe BiWeekly Question : A lesson from my wife how to celebrate despite the pain

in Abundance Tribe3 years ago

Today as any year, we celebrate a religious holiday (Eid).
This holiday comes once a year and on this holiday the children wear new clothes, walk around the city, visit relatives and collect some money. That's what makes this day a day of happiness and joy for children, and also for parents. and especially the mothers

This year the holiday (Eid) was very different not because of the virus, but this holiday like other occasions makes me remember that I had a handsome, smart, and naughty son. Every Eid he wears his most beautiful clothes and walks around with me among relatives and fills my life with happiness and joy, Unfortunately, my son died a year and a half ago, on every occasion, I try to be happy but I remember him then I lose the taste of happiness

Today I found my wife with my son (My second son) ... she talking to him although he does not speak yet then she answers herself with a different voice on the basis that he is who answers. .. she was very happy with him and for his new clothes .... when she looked at me I tried to share her happiness but she was able to see some tears in my eyes ... she knows very well that I still suffer psychologically after the death of my last son.
She asked me to sit down and then she said, "Life won't wait for you to end your crying... We lost a son and now we have another son who deserves to give him the happiness that he needs..."

At this moment, I realized how emotionally powerful a woman is.
A woman who seems weak is actually the greatest emotional energy in life ...
My wife, although she suffered because of our son's illness, was able to overcome that deep sadness inside her and draw a new smile on her face to give her new son a better life and greater happiness...
Women have the strength to endure pain, face emotional and psychological crises and be able to quickly understand attitudes, and how to deal with them.

Today I learned from my great wife that sadness is part of our lives but not part of our happiness ... Our wounds can hurt us, but won't stop us from walking to celebrating with our son.


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This 👆👆👆my son who alive ❤️ (05/13/2021)


This 👇👇👇 my son who dead 💔 (2017)

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Wow, what an amazing and strong woman your wife is. I can't imagine coming through such an experience in such a positive way, yet I can see why she had to in order to on with life.

Yes... She's an amazing wife. Although she was suffering from our son's illness more than me because she was the one with him in the hospitals most time and she is the one who carries him and cares about everything diaper, clothes, food, and medicine.
But she was able to overcome that old grief to give her new son the best life
whatever for try to reward her, I can't .because she deserves so much.
Thank you so much @minismallholding for your comment...

Thank you for sharing this with us @yagoub, I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful wife you have and son. Thank you for sharing the importance of celebrating life xxx

Thank you @trucklife-family for your reading and comment
I am very proud of my wife. She deserves a lot.