HIVE CROSS CULTURE CONTEST - The Women have no right to get angry stereotype

Its quite amazing to be here once again to Share our insights and rock minds together. Thanks to @starstrings for coming up with this and @glotokens for the mention.. Just like @starstrings rightly explained STEROTYPE as what is usually not true, I subscribe fully to that. In our society today there different unhealthy mindset that governs and subdues a lot of people, some people think about other people in diverse light and manner. As a result of this, some people become victims of low self-esteem, depression and atimes it gets very difficult to free themselves from the cage they find them-selves.

I will love to talk about the stereotype that states “women are not supposed to be angry / a woman must not be listened to”
I beg to differ not because I belong to that gender but because this is not true. We’ve had so many marriages destroyed and on the other hand two “room-mates” of the opposite sex live together in the name of husband and wife.

Who said women can’t get angry or can’t express how she feels about a particular situation?
Who said a woman’s speech ought not to be regarded?

All of this and many more a blatant lies and I can stand up to defend this anywhere and anytime.
First, let’s talk about a woman’s anger. Just like every other persons in the world, a woman can get angry because she has emotions and functional feelings. Never you take a woman for granted and think that by expressing the way she feels is an act of show up or pride. Please don’t get me wrong, I am not supporting the fact that women must nag to express or show their anger, far be it from that, there are a thousand ways to make one know you disagree with a particular behavior. For instance, if your spouse get you hurt or does something embarrassing, courtesy demands that you call him into the room, sit him down and educate him on what he did and how you felt about it but some men with so much ego will never accept their mistakes or see that they are wrong and this brings me to the fact that a woman’s opinion matters. Now a lot of suggestions brought by the women are often disregarded, please dear men, for crying out loud you didn’t marry a dumb fellow into your house, of course you got attracted to her sense of humor and perhaps her intelligence and the fact that you married her was no to bury all of that. Please marriage is not a burial ground, it’s rather a fertile ground where you sow and reap together in oneness, love and harmony. Listen to her ideas, sit together, discuss, deliberate and arrive at a unanimous agreement and trust me there is no height or mountain that you two can’t turn down. Look back at when you met yourselves, her inputs and contributions on certain things you wanted doing back then, can you see how successful and how sweet it was, you felt your lives were directly interwoven into each other’s and so you decide to make her the queen of your dynasty, but why treat her as a maid together? Trust me that woman is teachable and she can feel alive again, just try to undersgtand her feelings, give her a benefit of doubt, tutor her and make her feel valued. You won’t even know when things get all beautiful and blossoming again.
To you precious woman, you can talk to him in a love language you know he will understand, you don’t need to shout the roof down to express it, you don’t even need to use abusive words or talk at the top of your voice in front of the kids, remember he is your head and deserves to be respected. At this point, I rest my case.
here I invite @davetim2 to partake in this contest..the link is