Our Culture Is Define by Our Traditions

in Cross Culture15 days ago (edited)

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Somewhere between heat and music, Christmas in Venezuela lives in a register that does not ask for permission to exist. It arrives loud and early, sometimes in November, sometimes in the middle of a random afternoon when a neighbor decides to play a villancico at full volume and nobody complains. What I feel is not nostalgia yet, because I am inside it, walking through it with my daughter, letting her hand pull mine toward lights, stalls, and familiar chaos. December smells like sweet bread and sugar cane, like fried food and plastic ornaments warming under the sun. We do not pretend it is winter. We do not imitate snow. We lean into who we are. That is the first lesson of Venezuelan Christmas. It does not cosplay another place. It owns its climate, its rhythm, its contradictions. You can drink a cold soda, maybe Coca Cola, while sweating under a red dress and still call it Christmas without irony.

Nothing feels out of place. Everything is loud and intimate at the same time.
My daughter moves through the Christmas bazaar like it is a small universe designed for her curiosity. We stop to take photos with oversized characters, some imported, some adapted, all slightly improvised. The lights are not delicate. They blink with intention. People greet strangers easily. There is no sense of urgency, even when money is tight and everyone knows it. That is part of our idiosyncrasy. Celebration is not a reward for abundance. It is a response to survival. I watch her smile and I think about how this version of Christmas will stay with her, not as a perfect postcard, but as a texture. The noise. The warmth. The closeness of bodies and voices. Venezuelan Christmas is physical. It asks you to be present, to touch, to sing along even if you do not know the full lyrics. It is a communal act disguised as a season.

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Rather than Santa Claus sliding down chimneys we imagine something quieter and closer. El Niño Jesús is not a marketing figure here. He is an intimate presence, a shared understanding passed down without explanation. Gifts appear because someone thought of you, not because a mythical logistics operation delivered them. That difference matters. It shifts the center of gravity. Christmas becomes less about expectation and more about reciprocity. Villancicos are not background noise. They are collective memory. They carry humor, devotion, and a particular cadence that belongs to the Caribbean. People sing off key and nobody cares. There is belonging in that imperfection. I grew up with those sounds and now I hear them again through my daughter, who repeats fragments, invents lyrics, makes them hers. Culture survives like that, not by preservation, but by use.

Against the idea that Christmas must look a certain way, Venezuela offers something stubbornly authentic. It is messy. It is joyful without being naive. The decorations mix plastic, faith, and improvisation. The food is heavy and shared without measuring portions. Hallacas are not just food. They are labor, time, and family dynamics wrapped in banana leaves. Even when families are scattered, the idea of gathering persists. You feel it in conversations, in plans that may or may not happen, in the insistence of keeping the ritual alive. There is elegance in that persistence. Not polished elegance, but human elegance. The kind that comes from refusing to let circumstances dictate your inner calendar. December still means something here, even when the year has been unkind.

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There is a moment when I step back, camera in hand, and realize I am documenting more than a holiday. I am watching identity in motion. My daughter laughing with characters that do not quite belong to any tradition yet somehow belong to all of them. People around us creating a temporary city made of lights, music, and shared pauses. Venezuelan Christmas does not need translation. It explains itself by existing. It is faith without spectacle, joy without denial, culture without apology. When I think about what I want my daughter to remember, it is not the gifts or the photos. It is this feeling of being held by a collective rhythm. Christmas in Venezuela is not like anywhere else because it is not trying to be. It is simply being, loudly, imperfectly, and fully human.

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