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I just smile as a saw this weekly prompt, the topic is so exciting because it's what I'm currently passing through. First of all, let me appreciate @HiveReach-out and the team for this week topic, I'll also share my experiences whenever I'm angry and how do control it. The best way to manage anger is understanding yourself, what I mean by understanding yourself is knowing what you are capable of when you are angry or someone provoke you, this will really help you not to do something that you definitely regret when you come back to your state of mind. This method is what saved me several times from doing something silly.
Different people has different method of managing their anger, all what you have to do is to identify your unique way of managing it. I'm very aggressive whenever I'm provoked, I can do unimaginable things which I will regret later, so the best way I do manage my anger is to be quiet, I mean without altering a word whenever I'm provoked and this method as being really helpful to me and has prevented from committing an abominable act as a result of anger.
My experience during this period is always terrible, I'm a teacher, working in one of the private institution in my state, I do my job with all the amount of enthusiasm or lackadaisical attitude, I work with all my strength. Although, teaching profession in my state is underrated with low payment and poor working conditions but these and more couldn't stop me from doing my best but I was pissed off after working for good three months without any salary, it was after so much pressure that the school principal decided to give us a month salary but still insisted on surcharging lateness and late submission of Lesson notes. I wasn't myself anymore when he deducted N2,000 ($1.5) Nigerian money from N15,000 ($9.6) my monthly salary.
Meanwhile, I was so furious, really boiled up, I decided to approach him but I knew what could happen if I say a word because I approached with a very hot temper but I decided to remain silent, not saying anything, only looking at him and a whole lot was running through my mind but I still maintain decorum and tranquility, that was how I save myself from destroying someone's head with a experiment bottle that was in my hand at that moment. In managing your angry, understand who are you when you are not at your right mind, know what is favorable to manage that situation.
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Great. This is true that we all have different ways of handling and managing anger. Either ways the important thing here is we must manage so we don't regret our actions later. Thank you.
Thank you sir, different methods work for different people but some people do fail to know what works for them which eventually leads them to problem most times
Hmmm you really did well to manage your anger bro. It's best to always from speaking immediately when angry because those words might be regretful to you later.
Yeah, that's true, God has helped me to understand myself
managing anger is a good thing.
When you truly understand yourself and the dangers of Anger, you will appreciate anger management.Thank
Thank you! It's really nice to know yourself first