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Years ago I experienced an embarrassing moment that cuts across my mind and most times I laugh about it now but before now I knew how I always feel each time the scenario replayed in my head.
First Embarrassing moment was when I had to be beaten in public by my Mum because I was seen walking and talking with a Boy. One of the evening a male friend of mine came to the neighbourhood to see a friend so we got in contact so while walking him down my brother saw us and went inside to tell my Mother and this woman boom from nowhere came and start beating and embarrassing me in front of the boy and also embarrassed my friend just for walking with me. It was a terrible day for me.
That particular act made me stay for months without wanting to go out because as a teen my friends started deserting me because of my mum so my mum will not embarrass them too just as she did to me. So it was a very difficult moment for me as a person. It took me time to be able to move past that moment and start living a free life again. Most embarrassing moments leave one with a stigma that can never be forgotten. I think it's just now that I can comfortably stand with the opposite sex or even walk without fear of being embarrassed.
Another embarrassing moment was when I had to be beaten by my boyfriend in front of another girl. My life never remained the same since that incident and that moment made me lose trust and respect for the opposite gender. I kept entering into a relationship with the mindset that men are all the same so I could not allow myself to believe another will be different so that really affected my relationship till I stopped entering into one because I lost trust in the process but I am happy I am gradually coming out of it. It kept strucking me how a man would hit a lady in front of another lady just to prove a point. It was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. It made me start seeing every man the same way. It left a stigma in my heart and it also made me learn lessons not to keep fighting to be where you are not wanted.
These moments are moments we do not expect but unfortunately it just comes to play and the funny thing is that you just cannot help it. Most of the moments leave a scar in our hearts while most make us learn in the process and help build us to perfection. Some embarrassment happens for growth. You tend to see yourself consciously doing the right things at the right time, doing things to avoid being embarrassed in the process.
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It's become hurt especially when the embarrassment is from someone you love
Exactly!!!
That person was so toxic
I can imagine how embarrassing that was and it hurts when these are people you love
Exactly, But its fine that i had lessons to learn in the process.