ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH ME OE WITH THE FEELINGS

in The City of Neoxian3 years ago

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Hello my fellow hivers and my friends, how are you all doing today? It's another evening, the 16th day in the month of February, I hope you all enjoyed your day as well as possible...

So today I want to talk about something quite interesting, and inspiring and maybe educative too. To day I want to talk about a question, a question that should be asked to every obsessed relationship partner. Today I wan to ask a question of love which is
ARE YOU IN LOVE WITH ME OR IN LOVE WITH THE FEELINGS?

About 2 weeks ago I was with a friend, a real close friend, we were talking and playing when a question popped out from her, and she asked me, how do I know if I am truly in love, I'm I really in love with the person or I just love the feeling that love produces?

Like seriously, I was super confused and surprised at that question. I had to calm down, take a break and a deep breath before thinking to answer that heavy question, but I know that if I am in love, then I answered her and this was what I said...

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Love is magical and controllable, a person that is in love with the feelings that love produces has a less no concern for the person that will give him or her what he wants, because what the person will be thinking about is nothing but the pleasures and the person has no concern of where he is going no concern of where he wants....

But a person in love doesn't care what will be given to him by his or her partner, but will be willing to always be faithful and caring and loving and supportive at all times, such a person will always be happy with that one person that he loves...

So go and ask that your spouse it relationship partner, if what drives them to you is the mutual love you two shear or it is the love of the feelings that they are after?

The only difference between the both of them to my own knowledge is that like I have stated before, a real lover will always love partner at any cost but on the other hand, the person that is in love with the feelings will not be contented by just one source...

Love is understandable, so if your partner at all cost is always looking for the pleasures of relationship then he us just in love with the feelings and not in love with you because as soon as he finds another source where he gets pleasures from, hell definitely leave you and go to the the other source...

Know your lover's opinion about you before concluding that your are in love, Zara loves you...

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Uhm.this is deep. I learnt something today. Thanks man.

You welcome boss thanks man...

Anytime, man.

This is understandable and your points are genuine 😊

Thank you ma