Stay alone or have friends??

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This topic might look confusing to you all but you would understand along the line on what the topic entails.

Without further ado let me go straight to the point right away,as we all know friends are good to have whenever we have trusted ones and the ones we can rely on whenever we fall.

A quick definition of friend: friend can be defined as someone who is mutually connected to someone and they have a close bond.

Having friends nowadays is tiring as many friends tend to bring down their friends or just stay in their life to finish their money, that's why it is advisable that we should be careful while selecting friends cause a friend can make you poor and some friends can make you rich,we just need to know the main reason why that person we call our friend is in our life.

Having true friends isn't an easy feat like we see it to be,we must have come across the bad ones cause they are rampant in the society nowadays,you must have gone miles and almost loose hope that there aren't any good friends out there but the main thing is that they aren't what we seem they are.

Finding good friends is a good thing, let's be careful while choosing who to make as friends in our life,most of them are just there to spoil our mood and laughter.

We all need someone to confide in and tell our deepest secret but we also need to be extra careful while telling our friends anything,they might use that to betray us, it's advisable that we keep secrets to ourselves and don't spit it out to our friends except we have trusted in him/her.

Don't get me wrong, finding the best match of people to become friends is isn't impossible but we shouldn't hold on to those who aren't adding any value to our life, instead let's cut the friendship and stay lonely.

In my own suggestion,I think been alone is the best rather than gathering those we take as friends but they aren't worth taking as friends,they don't add value to our lives but instead hurt our feelings.

There's no crime by staying alone,the only thing is that it would just look boring to us but to my opinion it's best we stay lonely rather than giving space to friends who don't add value to our lives.

Thanks for reading.

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You are 100% correct. I often compare people to food. There are some that are fun to be with but they are completely toxic and should be avoided, and others that take a bit of work but are great for us and those around us, but they are not always fun but these relationships should be indulged.
People have the potential to build us up to massive heights and also the potential to destroy us :-)