Happy weekend to all hivians, hope we had a wonderful day,
Men are unfairly hostile to, in this planet earth, please people' we men need a lot of care too, women tend to get all the attention in the world, we live in a world where women are always the victim, and men the villian, not to say women doesn't deserve all the attention given to them but men should share in the attention given to them too,
It's a crazy world and almost everybody has it hard, take for instance the war going on in ukraine vs russia, the amount of people who would have lost their lives, the israel and gaza conflict where thousands has lost their lives in a war they didn't start, these people needs all the empathy and care they could get because it's going to take a while before they could get back on their feet even after the war, wars always have many after effects like, poverty, sickness, famine, even economic distabilization,
And most of these wars are fought by men
Whenever it comes to rescue in a country that is at war, women and children are always the ones to be saved first, men always comes last, and in these world we have fewer men than women, i think,
But men are always the ones to die first, especially here in africa,
In west africa, particularly nigeria, whenever a man takes a lady to a eatery or even a local canteen, the man is expected to be the one to pay, it is very scarce before you see a woman pay for a man in a restaurant, it is good to make a woman feel special, but are men not supposed to feel special too
It may look like i am advocating for men but i am just outlining how the world works, men empowerment has never been something to be seriously considered rather it has always been a bonus empowerment,
Have you ever heard of boys power, trust me I haven't, but i have heard of girls power many times than i could count.
The question now is' can fighting for mens empowerment be a movement? For me the answer is no, should men look to be empowered? the answer is still no.
For men out there looking for empowerment opportunities, i would not say it is a bad thing but it should not be your plan c as a man making it your plan A or B is out of the options, the debate now is that should it be your plan C , i feel it should not even be in your plan at all as a man, there is no problem if you stumble upon it, but don't bank on it because you may end up being disappointed or worse being scammed.