Everyone deserves the best energy in their life

Empowerment has been that tool used to energized our spirit. l recalled when mom took us to my aunt place, and she was always giving more attention to other kids when issues erupt, at those moments, i thought she was being partial, as she did not took my side for once.

But, later on, i was able to get it that, she did what she did, because she has talked to me countless times, about not looking for other kids troubles, but l was such a troublesome kid.

The time we came back from my aunt's place, and my fatter was told of what had happened, he was not happy about what i did, neither was my mom, the sad mindset goes on, till father came and have a word with me that day.

most of his words were, "why was i fond of looking for other kids troubles, even when I called them my friend's, he told me that, friends are like brothers or sisters and should be watching each others back, yet the deal was that, most of the times, lt wasn't my fault, but that of those kids in the neighborhood, yet, in the house, i was already seen as a kid who likes to fight.

But, it was not like i was even capable of fighting for many hours, just few minutes, l will be praying in my heart that somebody somewhere should come and separate us.

At every time father talk to me, he will be setting example using my sister's, and as times goes on, he was giving more time to them.

At this point, I understand what I must do, and l was not getting involved with trouble in the neighborhood any longer, and l was even the person who report first when troubles wanted to come looking for me, l will run away.

Then, it makes me got the same attention, because I was not taking up myself as a gladiator, as l always did, but l was now showing that i was a child, and as well needed the attention as best as l can get.

Looking more into what empowerment does, i think we need to first of all stop to see men as we see them, because most men are so emotional, and could feel hurts on a very little matter, or a change they see in their life's.

Yet, not forgetting that it is good to realized that women's are gotten the best empowerment in today's world, but in the same vain, I think men also deserve the same, so that they will as well get the same joy and energy coming into their life's.

The deal is, when father realized that I was not getting involved in those fights anymore, he was giving me the same attention, and as well, realized that even those times, all the troubles was not coming from me, but it was due to the report he was been told about me whenever he comes back from the office.

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