I’ve had things happen to me and I’m left thinking if this really is the life we are meant to live. I mean have all passed the phase where things happen to us and we are left asking why us. But have we ever sat down to ask why not us? Maybe we really deserve the things that happen to us sometimes and on other day, it’s just life doing its thing.
Personally, there are a lot of things I believe in in this life but if there’s one thing that tops them all, it’s change. I believe that people can change no matter how bad or good they are irrespective of the situation. I mostly use myself as an example anytime I speak of change. I’ve always known myself to be a very stubborn person. I bet most people didn’t think I’d turn out this way but with time, lessons here and there and opportunities, look where and who I am today.
The change I went through over the past 5 years could have been good or bad but the decision lied ij my hands at some point in time. The choice to either do good for myself or be a burden to myself and others. As someone who knew wha I wanted , I knew where to go to get what I wanted and that’s just what I did. Not forgetting the fact that people did give me the benefit of the doubt , the avenues and also opportunities to get to where I am today. Life goes beyond judging others and saying they would never change. You the one judging would probably be worse if you were in their shoes. So let’s learn to give people enough grace as much as we wish from them because what goes around, does come around.
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