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May you fell in love with someone!

My love once asked me if I can die for her, my reply is no because my life doesn’t belong to me and dying for her means am sacrificing the life of 7 other people.

The same applies in this post, spending my entire life savings on someone I love who is about to die, I won’t be the only one to suffer the consequence,6 others tied to me will also suffer the consequence because I won’t be able to help myself talkless of helping them.

So the choice am left with is either to try and save one loved one whose chance of getting better is not certain and it is also not guaranteed that the money I have will be enough to save the person or I can be mean not to put myself in debt and assure a good life for the other 6 still alive and healthy …

I understand your point but as a family man, I must be very logical…. Because whatever decisions I take will not only affect me but every of my loved ones that am trying hard to provide for.