My Top 3 Toxic Traits. No.3 Fit End Me!😂

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Ah, toxic traits.

I had to pause and laugh when I saw this topic.

I am a highly flawed individual…I won't even try to form Mister perfect here. And among my many flaws, I would say…three stands out the most

And like the popular saying “a problem shared is a problem half solved.” So without further delay, let’s dive in! Hopefully I get help:
The first is

1. Lack of Concentration

This is actually a funny one.
The way my mind dey fly ehn…omo

Picture this: I’m seated at my desk, determined to tackle the task of writing an article (like this one!). I open my laptop, And then—BAM! It’s a notification from my phone. My mind takes a detour, before I realize it, it's 30 minutes gone, and not a single word has been typed on my pc.💔

Or it could be that we're having a conversation about the economy. 5 minutes into the convo and I'm wondering why the sky is blue…lol

It's really crazy, and has landed me in fights with my girlfriend more times than I can count
I'm definitely working on it though. But more suggestions will be very much appreciated.

Thanks in advance

Next on the list is

2. Inability to Ask for Help:

Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always found it nearly impossible to ask for help. Even from my parents. I guess it’s because of the way they reacted the few times I asked. I don’t know why, but I just hate seeing someone in distress because of me. The few times I was able to gather the courage to ask, I had to rehearse the lines to use…lol.

As I grew older, it became worse. My friends and family have complained so many times, but well…it has become part of me. And soon they understood this. They no longer wait for me to ask. They simply assist whenever and however they could. And I appreciate them for this

In a way, I feel this is a good thing. Because it has helped me become independent…maybe too early. Lol

Now the final and most dangerous of all is….

3. Procrastination:

if care is not taken, procrastination will end me!
I was supposed to be done with this very article since Monday evening. But well, here we are!

I most definitely need help in tackling this problem.
Though I always get my work done. But not when I’m supposed to.
I'm well aware this is a matter of self discipline. And I’m trying my best to do away with this habit. But I’m still putting this out there. Any little advice will be appreciated

So there you have it fam.
Recognising and acknowledging these flaws wasn’t easy. But with my very own kryptonite out in the open, my heart feels lighter. And I’m hopeful that with this step, things will get better soon.

I hope you enjoyed and learnt something from this.

ciao