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We are all different and so is our fear. We have heard most times and probably seen one or two happening around us. A close friend of mine happens to experience it, it has set a system of fear in me. Single mum and I've seen a lot of my friends that became single mum due to a failed marriage. The rate of divorce and failed marriage around my relatives and friends
get me worried and I'm so scared of becoming a single mum one day, the rate of divorce are actually flying on the roof these days if you ask many singles are there today many of them prefer to be a single parents because of problems that usually occur in marriages and many singles don't want to experience such because it might actually lead to divorce and they will be come a single parents. so many prefer not to go into such marriage.
But as for me, I am a family lover aside from that.
My greatest fear in life is to raise a child alone as a single mum, to be a single mum is not an easy task it takes a lot of responsibilities, your time, your care, your love, your finance, and many more of which I use to ask myself will I be able to be responsible for them alone. For example my best friend became a single mum due to failed marriage, she tried to work hard so she can meet up the children needs financially, she goes to work from morning till evening when she come back she'll be so tired she will want to rest and get ready for the next day
In this case she will not know much about the children's day by day activities, what happens around them, in school, after school, even to check their academic performance.
Reason for my fear
I want to give the best of myself to my children and being a Single parent can affect children in many ways such as in their education, housing and family arrangement and many other areas.
Which I don't want my two daughters to experience.
Though I will never let the fear of being a single mom keep me in a bad marriage, being a single mother scares the hell out of me.
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Some adults go into marriages they’re not ready for and later come out when they realize they can’t go on with it, little do they know that this huge change will affect the lives of their kids because they will have to move from having both parents to having one.
In cases like this, the divorce affects the kids more than the parents and that’s why it’s advisable to marry when you’re ready to the right person.
Truly many people are going to marriage these days which they're not ready for, some of them doesn't have a good reason of getting married all they want is just to get married, after bearing one or two children in the marriage problem will start and they will want to find for a divorce it affect children seriously. I also advise all singles out there to shine their eyes very well before choosing a partner if not because of anything because of their future children
I can understand your fear. There is a reason while we bear children from a union. Children need both parent to nurture them. Single parenting is difficult and will affect the child more than one can imagine.
I agree with you 100% single parenting affect children more than imagination