There are categories of people who are used to announcing whatever it is that they intend to do, they believe so much in making so much noise about their intention that everyone already knows what their plan is even before they achieve it, I want to share this post to discourage such act because according to stories we hear, the people who announce their success before they achieve them usually do not have their goals meet at the end of it.
There are also a lot of people who really want to make moves in a silent way but do not know how they can do that, announcing your success before it arrives has a lot of downsides attached to it. Let us imagine that you were called for an interview and because you are really optimistic about it, you choose to tell your friends and families about the next big move and how you are going to become employed really soon in the company but then you go for the interview and you were not picked.
Going back to tell your friends about the sad news will not make you feel good I suppose, imagine that this happens for like three to four times consecutively and every time that it happens, you feel really bad about yourself and wish that you had a way to cover the shame, but this shame would have been avoided if you had kept your lips sealed about the information in the very first instance.
It is really better when you achieve something and people see it and celebrate with you than when you have not achieved anything and they are hoping that soon they will see what you have told them about which will make you appear like a liar if the same thing continues to happen frequently.
One other thing that telling people about your ideas does to you is that, it makes it easy for people to talk you against what you want to do, from the group of people that you tell about your ideas and plans is where you are going to find those who will make you realize that those plans of yours are not realistic and give you reasons why you need to back down on it and this makes the dream dies before the realization occurs.
Rather than sharing your idea with people who might discourage you or not be able to help, it is better for you to take that idea to a professional in the field and accept the training he will give to you instead of just splitting the ideas to people anyhow.
Hi @papa-mensa, not disclose the plans you have in life until they are achieved is a very important strategy, when you vociferate your goals and those goals are not achieved you can get frustrated, that is why we must be prudent with our life to not be affected.
A very important reflection of life, thank you for this publication.
There are times when silence is golden and even speaks better in the long run than voices. It is better when people get to see your celebration when it matures than to announce it even before it arrives. My thoughts though.
Nice piece as usual buddy
There are times that being silent and not revealing our own intentions is a tactic that has been used historically all life, take the example of war, there strategies are taken in silence.
Greetings and thank you for your contribution.
I also believe that our work should speak louder than words and I totally agree that working in silence is something that gives us more energy and less distraction from unnecessary things.
I normally find it difficult to tell people about my life in general anyway so same with my success. It's better that way and it saves you unnecessary jealousy and bad vibes
Hi @papa-mensa, you have to know how to identify with which people to share information and at what time to do it.
Sometimes it can be inappropriate, you don't gain anything positive. But in others maybe they can help you with some recommendation.
Good topic, thanks for sharing
Regards
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