Welfare refers to the pleasurable and pleasurable sensations produced by thematic human beings by providing their own satisfaction and protection. In confessions. Rausu once expressed the view of happiness that man has long been unconscious happiness is the long-term deep spiritual satisfaction of the human heart. Which transcends all matter, wealth and desire and is determined by the prescribed and the happy state of mind and body and soul without heavy burden.
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Let’s start the story of a little guy around me. A few years ago, when all my colleagues were fighting to buy a house in town. At that time he was the only one who was paralyzed due to some meaninglessness. This incident turned him into a black bean-like unit accidentally scattering in a rice jar. Which was so far from the place. He doesn't really have enough money to buy a house in town. I heard he once had a poor child with a serious illness. Who eventually died after being treated everywhere without success. The leaks in the house matched the rain throughout the night. As a result, the parents became exhausted, the mother died, and the father became ill one by one. All these changes gradually zero the family savings. Later, it was caught in the sinking profits of the enterprise and the unfortunate families could not come back.
I remember a few years ago, his elderly father was sick in the hospital and needed a craniotomy. Several of our good colleagues were ready to borrow his money. He opened his mouth to us, but unexpectedly he just borrowed $2,000 from me. I thought I heard wrong, and please ask him. Is it two thousand or twenty thousand? Shy laughed and said: "Two thousand, two thousand is fine." I know the condition of his family and sincerely told him that I could give him more. He was embarrassed to say no, as the operation was arranged at a hospital in the city. And he only asked an expert to do his guidance.
Which probably won't cost too much. I don't know what to say at the moment. At that time I thought. Is it the thinking of the poor? Borrowing money is so stingy. Two years later, I went to work at the corporate headquarters. And later he came to the headquarters because of work. Not two long years, but I saw Z for the first time in two years. I was surprised to see the marks left on the time plate on his face. She is darker and thinner than before and the wrinkles around her eyes deepen as she smiles. Slightly hunted, a dark suit shows the dullness of winter. I don't know if it's a down jacket or a cotton padded jacket. A pair of glasses with high myopia on the bridge of the nose which is still high thanks.
We can see that he is breathing softly. After a greeting, I said I would invite him over for lunch. I wanted to invite him from the perspective of my old colleague and talk casually. But he refused. Truth be told, Jade is my old colleague. But still I am not classified as an old friend. There may be age differences, there are also differences in personality. He has always been a person with a good personal relationship. I remember as long as there were things like carrying water, cleaning the office and sweeping the snow. He must do more and keep other colleagues at rest as much as possible. Although his life is not as good as most people. He has the heart to keep his work and life warm.
He has been working for more than ten years and still holds the salaries of ordinary workers. When some people around him are busy getting up. Then he is never flattered. In the end, he doesn’t do these things. It seems that he has been promoted to a higher position. It has a lot to do with his wooden but tactical character. He is the most natural and primitive human character and his simplicity makes people feel foolish. However, Z is very satisfied with his work. Because it is the work of the department that many dream of. When he came to this position, he really got it step by step. Outside of work he is most proud of his wife and daughter. There is nothing to mention about the romantic past between him and his wife. There is only mutual affection. He often praises his wife's great cooking skills to us. She’s afraid we don’t trust her and especially tells us to cook a pot of horticulture to eat. He often can’t help but talk about his beautiful daughter’s hard work, Philippine piety and understanding. And at the same time, because of her daughter’s financial skills she is mixed in a mixture of guilt about her but she is full of her expectations of her growth and future. He is such a person, living a normal life.
But it is really real. You see an unforgivable positive thing in her and it is very easy for her to find happiness. Many of us often dispel our dissatisfaction and even resentment towards life. But there are always some humble people who live like pure scholars, live their own happiness, are full of sincerity and gratitude for all things and people, do not fight for it, do not fight for it and are full of infinite hope for everything in the future. In fact, they are truly wise people. In reality sorrow and joy, bitterness and sweetness are all relative, and it is the highest level of living a life of happiness and sorrow. According to previous survey reports, the happiness index is lowest among the most developed cities in China, such as Baishangangshen and Shenzhen. For the Chinese people, the wealth of material life brought about by the rapid development of the economy has not really brought the spiritual life of the people to a new level. There are many factors that affect happiness such as economic status, quality of marriage, level of education, health, mental intelligence, financial business and individual gender, personality and age. Facing a persuasive society, it is always a simple truth that leads us to improve our happiness. Modern people get together and chat with their best friends.
Many people just go to show off their assets, status, cars, houses and children. There is only desire in the heart of man. There is no happiness in dealing with superficiality and reuniting old friends. It is even more valuable to compare blindly and to show wealth, to have long discussions with old friends, and to encourage one another in the power of friends. It is foolish to compare the happiness of others with their own happiness. Speaking of my colleague in the story right now, if he blindly compares himself to others. However, it is assumed that his happiness will not end. Give priority treatment to others. Interpersonal is an important magic weapon for improving our interpersonal relationships. We should not get excited and be patient with our family. In dealing with friends, we should not be mistaken. But should be sincere. We should not be arrogant when we treat strangers. But we can't let the kids go.
We should be responsible. A German psychologist says that people can be happier if they can manage a relationship with the nearest two dozen people in the vicinity. On May Day and National Day holidays this year, I invited a large family to dinner twice in a row. Friends and relatives always talked and laughed and were extremely happy when they got together. Although I spent money, my heart was happier than before (I rarely took the initiative to have a family dinner when I returned to my hometown). Later, I couldn’t help but write in my diary. It has been found that spending money with a loved one is very happy. We work endlessly all day long and human aspirations do not satisfy many people with the present. In worldly life, learning to be content will make us less confused and troubled. Be content, stay with your family on a free trip on the weekends and surprise your loved ones a bit in a special moment. These little things are enough to keep us happy for a long time.
There are some people around who argue with their spouse all day because of some minor things from their parents. Look at all these people who complain that they don't have money all day. However, they did not agree to raise capital for their financial management. Look at the complaints of those who see that they are not always promoted but they do not want to learn any skills ... What complaints can change them and their environment? Complaining is like a curse of happiness, which prefers silence to the end. Keeps the people around away, and makes the already dark environment even more cloudy, without looking for sunshine. Life without complaint is a life of moving forward and a life of silently realizing small goals in your own heart. There are so many small things in life and if you draw it with your heart your happiness will burst. I remember reading an article about Wayne Zhang. If you think life is boring, you can go to the intensive care unit of the hospital to see it once.
Patients who die suffering from illness can still face the world. As a physically and mentally healthy person, what excuse can I make for spring and injured autumn here? If you have time, take the initiative to volunteer. If you have money, you cannot give your love. You go to an orphanage with children or go to a nursing home to take care of the elderly. When helping others, I believe that your inner darkness and negativity will never be clear before.
Less desire, happiness will be near us!