‘like the guy at the bar who complains about how much his life sucks in the hope for sympathy sex. I don't know what kind of woman thinks she is getting a good deal in that relationship, but the thing is, it must work at least some of the time otherwise no one would attempt it.’
For me personally, complaining is a turnoff, and while I am not a fan of arrogance, I do like confidence.
To chime in on your statement no complaining doesn’t work as a seduction technique and it isn’t the pathetic guy who complains at the bar who gets the girl. It’s the guy who cynically states that the world and his life are shite with an ‘I don’t give a fuck attitude’ who gets laid. A world weary demeanour with a few flashes of sarcastic humour works every time, certain women (and men I assume) have an overwhelming attraction to arseholes and want to ‘fix them’ and as you said yourself people like confidence.
(Great post as well mate, glad that Steem has become what it has for you)
I don't think it works for seduction either, but people use intuition as their approach - rather than what actually works, which is counter intuitive for most people. Unfortunately (perhaps fortunately) some people will never learn. Survival of the fittest is more than physical for humans.
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