Marriage
Someone is born in a family. They brought him upstairs. He taught him to the finest of his capacity. He taught her social etiquette.
The boy was promising. He scored well in school. Did well in college too. got a job. Being a person of good potential and aspiring, he decided to choose a better career option. Could be a startup. There might be a better job.
There were some well wishers who did not know what the qualification of a person was. Don't know how hard he got the job which he did. No Consider what his potential is.
But they are well wishers. He advised the family to marry her.
Parents chose a girl. Simple girl with simple dreams of building her own house.
The boy protests. But eventually the pressure of peers has to give up.
Marriage takes place.
But things are not going well between them. The boy cannot devote much time to marriage and family as his career is in ruins, his dreams are unfulfilled, his life aspirations demand his utmost dedication.
It's not the girl's fault for anything. So is the boy.
As time passes it becomes clear to the boy that this will not work out between them. So he proposes a peaceful and beautiful exit from the marriage. Nothing ever happened between them. So a beautiful exit that allows her to live her life well and let the girl live her life.
But there is a family that is intent on maintaining the same.
Here comes the advice of the boy's well-wishers-
Just have a baby and all will be well.
just let the girl stay home, ignore her and focus on your work
Just meet him once.
Most pathetic among all - just hit him when things don't go your way.
So what is one thing that 99% of people don't understand?
That a child should not be given birth just for the sake of binding a bond that does not have the consent of the people involved. Life should be built not out of despair, but of love and care.
In any relationship one should either get the attention it deserves and should not be in such a relationship at all. Just because someone understands it doesn't mean he has to be a part of it.
If someone doesn't want to be a part of a relationship, it should be respected, no matter what others say.
Marriage is not an event or a mere social certificate. It should be a journey of two people choosing consciously. Nothing should happen without the consent of the people involved.
Any relationship that involves violence of any kind should be ended.
A marriage should be a bond of comfort, trust and love. It cannot be enforced, coerced or enforced on people by others.
Marriage should be a prosperous journey, not an uncomfortable knot that no one can untie. If something does not add value to one's life then it should be eliminated and that option should be respected at all costs.
It is the consent and conscious decision of a person that makes that person. For traditions or customs it cannot be ignored.
Most importantly, those who chose to be different are totally different. If someone's parameter finds it different, it doesn't make that person wrong. He is only different from the others. And it has a value.
Peace.