Why can't happiness be permanent?

in OCD4 years ago (edited)

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Lessons I have learnt in life

I have been alone with my thought, thinking about life in general, and I keep keep asking, why is life like this??
Why do human suffer?? Why do we go through stuff? Why are some people complete and yet unsatisfied??

This question triggered lots of emotions inside me,, I became more curious , I started asking questions hoping to get a valuable answer.
So guess what? At the quest of my search I had some discoveries

Life

Life! life! life!
If you are reading this I guess you are alive, and I thank God for that

There are two things in life, happiness and sadness, love and hatred, rejection and acceptance, life and death etc life is composed of 2 things.

Suffering

So then what is suffering? Why do we suffer? Why do we have to suffer to achieve a goal? Why don't suffering go away? Why does it go away temporary and comes back later? Why can't happiness be permanent??

I guess by now you are probably asking your self this questions or perhaps you already know the answer.
Here is the fact and bitter truth about life and suffering :

Suffering is part of life, it is inevitable you can't do anything about it neither can you do away with it.

If suffering is inevitable, if our problems in life are unavoidable,
then the question we should be asking is not “ How do I stop suffering?” but “ Why am I suffering—for what purpose?”
You have to choose what you are suffering for. You have to choose your own struggles and pain, choose what you feel is worth suffering for.

Heartbreak might break you for the moment, but it was meant to rebuild for the longer run, channel your pain to the right direction.

Take a look at this broken pot

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it was broken and almost useless but the owner of this pot did not throw it away, instead she put it together and created something even more beautiful with❤😍 Source: https://www.google.com/search?q=broken+flower+pot+art+beauty&client=ms-opera-mini-

So imagine this pot as your heart which is broken, Remember you are the owner of this pot (heart) which is broken. Now its your responsibility to put your self together and create something beautiful out of your circumstances.
Take advantage of your pain!!
don't let it take advantage of you!!
Pain are meant to break you and make you stronger, it is your responsibility to rebuild your self to the best version of you.

Never run away from your problems or pains no matter how bad you feel about it.
No matter how bad it is, you will surely scale through .

Everyone in life has a problem
just that we are all different Like our problems and the difference here is that some persons problems are more upgraded than some.

No one is perfect and No one is without a problem
Only a dead person is...

Be strong and choose your struggle, choose what you feel is worth suffering for. Remember!! You are the C. E. O of your life

Thank you for reading and I hope you are inspired!

See you soon😍

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