My attention to detail can be a pain in the A$$ sometimes as well. I am more than a little OCD, I'm a grammar Nazi (in English) and I suffer from PTSD, so I have anger management issues,
Most people do not enjoy spending time with me, so even though I have a nice house and I'm working on making it better
I am alone nearly all the time, except for my cat, "His Royal Highness, Crown Prince Tommy of Assholia"
I have 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, 1.6 acres of land more than half of it at the back is just woods
I appreciate your honesty and openness. It sounds like you've got a unique sense of humor with "His Royal Highness, Crown Prince Tommy of Assholia" – what a fantastic cat name. Your house and land also sound like a peaceful haven, especially with the woods in the back. Remember, everyone has their quirks and challenges, and your self-awareness is a valuable asset. If you ever want to share more or just chat, I'm here for you.
Just so you'll know, my house we built 15 years before I was born, so the house is 84 yrs old, I will be 69 this summer
An 84 yr old house comes with 84 yr old problems and mysteries. I love the mysteries, I almost feel like I'm an archeologist, trying to figure out how things were configured in the past, what were they doing here in 1940 etc etc...
Every year I've put in a vegetable garden in the back yard, but last year I didn't work that much in it, health and depression... this year I'm going to try to do more.
Growing your own food is better for you and uplifting.
As for it being "a peaceful havne" that is specifically why I bought this place, now this "community" voted to incorporate and become a city (I voted against it).
There is construction going on everywhere, apartments (multi family mostly, means lots of cars and more noise) so far, the nearest such construction is about ½ mile away, however a "land locked" parcel (3.7 acres) IMMEDIATELY adjacent to my woods just sold. I am terrified there will be a multi family unit going in back there.
The biggest problem this will cause is the only access to this landlocked parcel is an easement that runs RIGHT NEXT to my privacy fence, about 15 feet from my bedroom wall.
Imaging the traffic, loud stereos playing and gun fire that will be passing near my bed.
I'm considering selling and moving to Scotland or Ireland ha ha ha
Nice chatting.
It's truly fascinating to hear about your connection with your 84-year-old house and the joy you find in unraveling its mysteries. Your vegetable garden sounds like a wonderful project, and I'm glad you're considering getting back into it this year. Growing your own food can indeed be uplifting and nourishing, both physically and mentally.
I can understand your concerns about the changes happening in your neighborhood with the construction and potential development. It's disheartening when the tranquility you sought is threatened. The idea of moving to Scotland or Ireland sounds like a delightful dream – who knows, sometimes a change of scenery can bring a whole new chapter of peace and joy.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Wishing you the best in navigating the challenges and enjoying the unique journey your home provides😊🏡
Just so you understand, I have only been in this place since 2020.
I moved to the Atlanta area in 2009, after many MANY years spent homeless and on drugs and alcohol, I was unemployed and living in a relatives basement. 2010, I got a job as a part time CNA (Certified Nursing Assistant), then I discovered that the nursing homes where I was working changing diapers, would pay me to play ♫♪Music♫♪ as an entertainer, and things began looking up for me.
My Social Security disability came through in 2016 which gave me a lump sum back pay enough to get my car, and a small monthly check.
Then in 2019 my VA disability (PTSD) came through, and for the first time in my life I actually have a decent income, decent for me anyway.
I have been cursed for years but now I am blessed.
Your resilience and strength shine through your story. It's truly inspiring to hear how you turned your life around, overcoming challenges and finding success as a CNA and entertainer. The fact that you've received the recognition and support through Social Security disability and VA disability is well-deserved.
Life's journey can be filled with ups and downs, and your transformation from difficult times to a place of stability is a testament to your inner strength. Your positive outlook on your current situation reflects a remarkable mindset.
Wishing you continued blessings and joy on your journey.