Personal growth is painful. Setting boundaries in your life creates conflict with those who do not want to respect you. The difficulty is worth it, though.
I'll delegate some Hive Power to help you comment more often while you find the best communities and follow some content creators here. You said you had cats, but I see no cat pictures. Maybe you could join Caturday and share some there?
You're right, setting personal boundaries is fundamental when relating to others. Those who are truly willing to love us will respect us and are those who are worth keeping in our lives.
Right now I am preparing a post about one of my cats and I was looking for communities related to the topic. Thanks for the suggestion and support. ❣️