So true, so true. What you experienced, I also did. Who did not anyway? I also used to monitor the number of followers I have and then wonder where they hide when I write a post. But unlike you, I took a long break from the blockchain for so many reasons and when I returned I had to start all over again. The few friends I made then were either gone or taking a long break as well. But the one thing I seldom did, which to my mind is not only a newbie mistake but an old-timer one is engaging. I would respond to people who would comment but I did not go out of my way to make friends. Only during the last year did I realize this is one of the most important thing in this blockchain, if not the most important one. So you might be wondering why despite my more than 3 years here you are the only orca I know. But funny thing is I don't seek out befriending whales or orcas. I am a very private person and I really prefer to have a small circle of friends. So I guess that carried on to my experience in Hive and the other one. But no regrets. I enjoy my stay here now in Hive with friends who I support and love to engage, albeit just a small group.
I am resteeming this post as I think a lot of people, old and new, should read this either as a guideline or as a reminder of how things are around here. Love this post so much @livinguktaiwan.
Thanks for your lovely words @gems.and.cookies.
I often cringed when I look at who people are following, and it's mainly whales most of whom never post. Why on earth do you follow people who never post? I always think you should follow people whose blog you enjoy reading or someone who you have a good vibe with. In terms of your small circle of friends, again that's the same as posting, quality over quantity, nothing wrong with that.
The most important thing is enjoying yourself on Hive and not chase after rewards all the time. Sounds like you'r in the perfect place now
Yes I am quite happy with the way things have turned out so far with me here in Hive. I am happier and I do engage more frequently now simply because I genuinely like the people I talk and relate to. And I am so glad that there seems to be a genuine reciprocity from my friends as well. Now what could be better?
I had wanted to comment on your other post about the wedding that was not but was so busy during that time. Anyway, I hope things are going well with you in your new place and that your over-zealous neighbor is now behaving. And shucks, I lucked out on the fourth attempt on your guessing game hehe. Can't wait for the next.
Stay safe and have a great week.