You said one very important thing right there: the right kind of people in the first place. I realised later in life we can't change people. They can only change themselves. Often there are so many years wasted trying to show people their wrong doings.
We are not perfect, but that shouldn't be an excuse for not trying and be satisfied with mediocrity. I believe that everybody can make mistakes, what we do after is what counts.
You can't make anything out of the people who won't go deep within and realise they have to change. It is indeed a waste of time
In the lucky cases, in which you selected with care the future partner, it will still be a lot of work, but at least it will be way better with two people putting each other on 1st place and always improve. I believe that if a relationship isn't helping you be better and improve you as a person and instead is bringing you and your dreams down, then it is not right for you.
Agreed. When Faith and I met we were little more than kids. I was seventeen and a half and she was almost sixteen and we have beet together ever since. We grew together, neither trying to change the other. So many things came into play throughout our lives and we've had good and bad times, but we always respected the other and showed patience and understanding. It's not always easy, but we made it work.
A good model. I am inspired by the two of you. Bravo!
Grazie mille.
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