I remember some of the health issues that he was enduring for a while and i know exactly how you feel about letting them go to that peace. I didn't want to say too much so as not to reveal anything that wasn't needed to be out for everyone to know all the details. I recall how it had been difficult for you to be there and the family to be scattered. I am glad that you have the outlook that you do. It will make the grieving process go much smoother. For me the grief comes in waves having lost my daughter and dad. I have managed fairly well. You are right... the World does make sense and us 'Mericans do things the hard way. I have my phone on C so i can get a sense of what it's really like. We were around 34 but felt like almost 40 today here in Texas. Day Month Year... they taught me that in French class but i guess i didn't pay enough attention! Take care brother. Holler at me if you need to talk or anything browski. =)