This is the question that every human being seeks to answer. To find the answer to this question, we have to ask ourselves some questions. We have to analyze our caste. We have to ask ourselves, do I love myself? Do I consider myself worthy of being loved? Have I tried to make people love me? Have I yet forgiven myself for my mistakes and shortcomings? If I don't love myself, why would people love me? If I can't forgive myself, how can I be able to forgive others?
Our greatest tragedy is that we continue to seek love beyond ourselves. We want people to love us. People should not run away from us. Don't let people hate us. But unfortunately we do not prepare ourselves for it.
People's loves are always knocking on the door of our hearts but the evil within us does not allow them to enter. We have big snakes of hatred, jealousy, greed, enmity and personal ego in our inner world. Because of their fear, people's love dies on the way. Our poisonous language always bites people.
All our lives we cultivate negative attitudes and emotions that make even the best of people consider running away from us as their booty. We only look for evils in people's lives. We don't have any good content other than complaints from people. We never miss an opportunity to criticize people negatively. We consider it a sacred profession to expose the evils of the people to others. We remember for years any bad thing people do but forget all their good things
Remember love is never outside love is always inside. Love wants sincerity. The container of love is called sincerity. Love grows in the heart where there is sincerity. Love comes where there is love. Love is what attracts love. If we want people to love us all, we need to analyze our attitudes fairly. We need to look at the internal factors that are causing people to hate, envy, malice and bigotry.
In order for people's love to come in, we have to create the desired space in our hearts. What kind of love do we want from people? We must first empower ourselves. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. We have to get rid of all the negative attitudes and emotions that characterize our personality and stop people's love.
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