You see it's one thing to love or be in love, it's another thing for that love to be reciprocated and not just reciprocated but in the same measure or even more.
Loving is made easier when more than one party is involved, it gets tiring if love is always and only one sided.
One sided love usually does not last because mostly it gets draining and tiring along the line the one involved mostly gives up the fight.
You realise that two people who are in love and married mostly live happier than the couples that only one person loves the other
It will be always be evidence in their actions and their daily dealings. And in our society today where most people have replaced love with money and the rest of the material things, you find it difficult to see two genuine soul that sincerely love themselves, though the rare ones still exist.
And to this effect, I am bringing this piece to you today;

To love and be loved!, this is my greatest rule of love, it might not be the same for others, but I believe in reciprocated love, I believe in a love that overflows, a love that bounces back. One sided thing is never something I desire, not for myself nor for anyone I know.
As much as I haven't really been in these shoes precisely, I do know just little about how it feels to not be seen or heard from people you claim to love, or to be appreciated and accepted.
Someone once told me that women or ladies hates rejection, I don't know the grounds to that statement but I feel everyone hate rejection, not just the ladies.

And people are rejected in love too, they don't have to outrightly tell you this or mention it but through one's actions you could tell that sometimes there is pure rejection and there is absolutely nothing you or anyone can do to help it.
So this is why I say that loving and being loved back in return is the greatest for me in the rule of love.
Leave no room for one sided love, a love that only thrive within you and yourself alone.
There is so much love in the world, so much to be given and so much to be received as well.
Guard your heart and cleanse your mind of every underserving situations that didn't serve you right, be more open to accept the goodness coming your way once more.
It's okay to love again and it's okay to give room to be loved too.

𝐖𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐫

  9 January ~ Thursday