Temperamentally unsuited
Greetings, everyone!
Welcome to my blog. I want to share a little nugget of wisdom with you. Fortunately, I like marriage and like watching people who are into marriage share their experiences and advice for those who are into it already and to those you are ready to marry. I stumbled on a middle-aged woman who shared her experience of her marriage. Her temperament was not suited for her, and her husband's temperament wasn't too. So they got divorced, and they went their different ways. She shares how her character was bad because of that, and she was in haste to marry, but she got into it and messed a lot of things up. Here, she wasn't ready for marriage and she jumped into it because she wanted to marry. Yeah, she was, 'I can't wait, I want to marry, probably she counted her age and was like, I am getting older.' At the marriage, she wanted to turn to mar instead of managing and mending the cracks, but no way.
Marriage is not for the weak. As technology changes, bringing innovations our way, let's change, too. Putting our old character into a trash.
Marriage doesn't go well with temperamental issues. It doesn't like anger, bad character, selfishness, or bitterness, and doesn't like closure but requires openness, good character by both parties, and many more good characteristics to make the marriage successful.
Women, we know what our men like, respect, and peace of mind; these are their medicines for success in marriage. Ladies, we have to mellow down and learn the right way to help us grow fast.
The woman also narrated her second marriage, as she met her husband, her right spouse; by this, she had learned not to make the same mistake she made in her first marriage. Marriage is sweet but applying the principles of marriage with wisdom is a great gain because it is hardwork. You can't go into marriage and fold your new hands and stay. It is hard work that involves every part of you: your intellect, prayers, and physical life.
When temperament meets with temperament, it results in heat and explosion. There will be cracks in marriage but you will have to be ready to amend them for better results.
I continue to say that my marriage will be the best and I enjoy everything in it. I'm a young woman who loves marriage from the beginning. I want my marriage to be at the top in character, morals, and many more.
Keep temperament down, let's wear good character that will bring a good report. Marriage is a ministry that shouldn't be a joke. We should take time and work on ourselves.
Thank you for reading through.
I love, I care, and I forgive
I remain @peckypeace
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